Abby Linam

Christmas thoughts and blessings

2007-12-15T13:43:00.000-06:00

As I prepared our Christmas letter for this year, I was reminded again of God's faithfulness in carrying us through the last year, and so I wanted to add one more postscript to our blog in the form of lyrics from these three songs. We have found them to be true. May you as well.

"Hold Fast"
By Mercy Me

To everyone who's hurting
To those who've had enough
To all the undeserving
That should cover all of us
Please do not let go
I promise there is hope

Hold fast
Help is on the way
Hold fast
He's come to save the day
What I've learned in my life
One thing greater than my strife
Is His grasp
So hold fast

Will this season ever pass?
Can we stop this ride?
Will we see the sun at last?
Or could this be our lot in life?
Please do not let go
I promise you there's hope

Hold fast
Help is on the way
Hold fast
He's come to save the day
What I've learned in my life
One thing greater than my strife
Is His grasp
So hold fast

You may think you're all alone
And there's no way that anyone could know
What you're going through
But if you only hear one thing
Just understand that we are all the same
Searching for the truth
The truth of what we're soon to face
Unless someone comes to take our place
Is there anyone?
All we want is to be free
Free from our captivity, Lord
Here He comes

Hold fast
Help is on the way
Hold fast
He's come to save the day
What I've learned in my life
One thing greater than my strife
Is His grasp
So hold fast

"You Never Let Go"
By Matt Redman

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death
You perfect love is casting out fear
And even when I'm caught in the middle of the storms of this life
I won't turn back, I know you are near

I will fear no evil
For my God is with me
And if my God is with me
Whom then shall I fear?
Whom then shall I fear?

Oh no, You never let go, through the calm and through the storm,
Oh no, You never let go, in every high and every low,
Oh no, You never let go. Lord, You never let go of me.

And I can see a light that is comin' for the heart that holds on
A glorious light beyond all compare
And there will be an end to the struggles
But until that day comes, we'll live to know You here on the Earth

And I will fear no evil
For my God is with me
And if my God is with me
Whom then shall I fear?
Whom then shall I fear?

Oh no, You never let go, through the calm and through the storm,
Oh no, You never let go, in every high and every low,
Oh no, You never let go. Lord, You never let go of me.

And I can see a light that is coming for the heart that holds on,
and there will be an end to the struggles,
but until that day comes,
Still I will praise You,
Still I will praise You...

Oh no, You never let go, through the calm and through the storm,
Oh no, You never let go, in every high and every low,
Oh no, You never let go. Lord, You never let go of me.

"Bring the Rain"
By Mercy Me

I can count a million times
People asking me how I can praise You
With all that I've gone through.
The question just amazes me--
Can circumstances possibly
Change who I forever am in You?

Maybe since my life was changed
Long before these rainy days
It's never really ever crossed my mind
To turn my back on you, oh Lord,
My only shelter from the storm,
But instead I draw closer through these times.
So I pray...

Bring me joy, bring me peace,
Bring the chance to be free,
Bring me anything that brings You glory.
And I know there'll be days
When this life brings me pain,
But if that's what it takes to praise You,
Jesus, bring the rain.

I am yours regardless of
The clouds that may loom above
Because you are much greater than my pain.
You who made a way for me,
Suffering your destiny,
So tell me, "What's a little rain?"

Bring me joy, bring me peace,
Bring the chance to be free,
Bring me anything that brings You glory.
And I know there'll be days
When this life brings me pain,
But if that's what it takes to praise You,
Jesus, bring the rain.

Lee Ann's farewell - October 3, 2007

2007-10-03T21:48:00.000-05:00

I've just finished tucking Abby into bed and feel a need to blog. Actually, I'm not sure yet if I'm going to post this, but writing is what I must do now.

Today is the one-year anniversary of Abby's accident. One year ago at this hour I think that Gordon and I were huddled in the hallway of ICU in Austin Children's Hospital while the neurosurgeon inserted a intra-cranial pressure monitor into Abby's skull. But we were not alone. We have never been alone. As we prayed and pleaded with God, the hallway outside ICU was full of friends from Hill Country Christian School, from Texas Parks and Wildlife, from Wimberley, even some friends we had never met before that night, also praying. And in a huge radius around Wimberley, Austin, New Braunfels, and beyond praying was taking place. And, despite our desperate fear, the healing had begun.

God heard. Even before we made that long drive with friends to the hospital and waited desperately to see Abby, He heard. He was in the people who rushed to the scene of the accident and provided care for the two girls. He was there with EMS on the ground and in the helicopter with the nurses. He sent people to find us so that we could briefly touch Abby before she was whisked away.

But there were still to be many frightening, uncertain days ahead of us. When Abby's sedation removal failed on day six and she had to be re-intubated, I fled away and shook my fist at God and told Him that I could not bear to have her not return to us. When her eyes opened, but it seemed she did not see us or comprehend us, we begged God that the healing would not stop. When her body awoke only to flail in frustration, our hearts broke. As she struggled with basic schoolwork in the first few months at home I cried. It was a very long road.

But God was with us. And you were with us. And that is why we wrote this blog--so that you could continue to walk beside us in prayer and so that others might find hope and comfort. Our faith is not faultless. We still do not understand why the healing we were granted is not granted to others who pray; all we know is that God is the source of hope and strength when there is none. We still sometimes mourn what Abby has lost , and we at times feel an envy for the wholeness that we see in her peers, but we also know that we have been granted a precious gift in Abby's sweet spirit. That gift is all the more priceless because we know how fragile it is. And, despite the moments of mourning, we have hope that the healing will continue and that God holds the future, even if it is different than the future we envisioned. We pray this blog conveys that hope.

And, so, on this anniversary, we begin a new chapter. I have struggled mightily with this decision (maybe because this blog has been good therapy for me...), but I think it is time for this blog to close and another to begin. I want this year to stand alone as a testimony of hope during a dark period, of learning to live day-by-day, of cumulative miracles that can carry one from the precipice of death to dreams of a bright future (did I mention that Abby finished her schoolwork early both yesterday and today?--Hallelujah!). And, then maybe one day Abby and I will come back and write a postscript that completes the whole story...

For now, thank you, thank you, thank you...for reading and praying. The kindnesses we received all along the way showed us the best parts in our fellow man, and we are honored beyond words that people have cared to continue to share our lives with us through this blog. If you're interested in the sundry daily activities of the Linam clan, feel free to check out www.linamramblings.blogspot.com. We'll keep posting some updates there, as I think our families have figured out it's the easiest way to keep up with us! It's been a privilege to share our lives and hearts with you over this year...

With love,
-the Linams

Thank you to--
*God, our source of hope, strength, and healing
*Beth Mitchell and the Schaedes for their love and prayers for us
*everyone who worked and prayed at the scene of the accident
*Wimberley EMS and Star Flight staff
*Austin Children's Hospital doctors, nurses, therapists, and social workers
*Ronald McDonald Houses in Austin and San Antonio--more than just a place to stay
*Doctors, therapists, nurses, and social workers at Warm Springs Rehab Hospital
*Little Tesoros home therapy staff
*Therapists at St. David's Rehab Hospital
*Teachers and special ed staff at Danforth Junior High in Wimberley, especially Mrs. Ruiz
*Teachers, coaches, classmates, and Pastor Tom Ray at Hill Country Christian School
*Dear friends at New Braunfels Church of the Nazarene for food, companionship, and prayers
*Wimberley 4-H, Hill Country Christian School, and all those who participated in the community fund-raiser
*Friends, co-workers, and Cypress Creek Church for the work on our home
*Supervisors at Texas Parks and Wildlife Department who gave us the time to heal together as a family
*Friends, family, pastors, and even strangers who visited, sent food, spent time with Frank, cared for our animals, called, emailed, donated money, and prayed; especially Abby's friends who have stayed by her side all the way

Linam Family Update - September 30

2007-09-30T22:14:00.000-05:00

It's been another busy week at 200 Hoots Holler. Well, actually, if we had only been at Hoots Holler a little more, then maybe it wouldn't have seemed so busy!! But, then what news would there be for the blog?

Maybe I'll work my way backwards from the weekend. Yesterday was the annual Pet Fest in San Marcos. We set up a booth for the 4-H dog project and had lots of fun in general. Abby and Arby performed their musical drill routine and did a great job despite some scheduling and technical difficulties on the part of the hosts. The kids also had fun entering some of the light-hearted contests with the dogs, and Amigo actually won the "best smile" category for his Charlie Chaplin imitation. We missed Pet Fest last year when it was held in October, so we were very glad to be there once again, rain and shine. Frank also squeezed a baseball game into the day, where he did some good pitching again.

The week was full of sports and schoolwork (and some music practice), but Frank and I also sneaked a trip in to San Antonio for a show at the Aztec Theater and a lunch with a dear college friend of mine. Frank and I decided it was a social studies field trip since we saw a movie on the Mayan Indians, and Marilyn is the author of a book on San Antonio history called It Happened in San Antonio, so maybe it wasn't too sneaky. (Although I guess it would have trouble passing for TPWD work, but that's why I work part-time!)

I do have a couple of prayer requests for you this week. The first is that, just in general, Abby would feel encouragement about her schoolwork. She's feeling discouraged about the ground she's lost and about things taking longer now. I know she will continue to improve, but right now she just needs to feel okay about things. The second is that this Wednesday is the anniversary of the girls' accident. We are not going to make a big deal about it in respect of Abby's feelings, but please keep Abby, Taylor, and the driver of the car in your prayers.

Thanks for praying with us all this year--you have shown the devotion of true friends and have taught us much.

Love,
-the Linams

Sunset in San Marcos this week (photo by Abby)

Linam Family Update - Sept. 23

2007-09-23T21:29:00.000-05:00

Will it really be Monday again in two hours??? Where did our weekend go? Where did the last week go? Well, let's see if I can figure it out...

Abby spent her week finishing up her first round of tests (one A and one B this week--not too bad!) and playing two volleyball games (one win and one loss--not too bad!), along with dog agility practice, music practice, horseback-riding, and volunteering at the riding therapy center after school. Frank also finished up his first round of tests (both A's this week, but not 100's, as he got on all his tests last week!), and threw in some baseball practices, music practice, a 4-H dog meeting, and a swim with some other homeschoolers. Then came the weekend and we really got busy--a violin lesson, volunteering at a 4-H luncheon, a baseball game (Frank pitched a perfect inning and hit a triple!), a visit to Natural Bridge Caverns to celebrate Juanita's birthday, and one other very special event.

Abby received an invitation to attend a "Courageous Kids Reunion"--a special celebration for children who had been patients in the ICU at Austin Children's Hospital. It was held on Saturday in Austin. Just to be there was, of course, such a celebration, but it was also very special to be able to enjoy the activities with many of the doctors and nurses and even some other ICU family members who were with us during those very hard times. We had the chance to tell many of them thank you for the care and hope they gave us, and they, in turn, had the chance to finally get to spend some fun time with the "real" Abby. I'd like to just share a few photos of some of these special people--taken this weekend and also during a couple of other return visits that we paid to the hospital. Thank you all, and God bless you...

Abby with ICU nurses Tamra & Rachel - Jan. 07

Abby with trauma doc, Dr. Maxson, & nurse Emily - Feb. 07

Abby & Hannah with night staff at ICU - Mar. 07

Lisa, ICU night nurse - at Courageous Kids Reunion

Sara, prayer warrior whose son was in ICU at the same time as Abby - at reunion

Abby uses her throwing arm to dunk Mr. Maxson (sweet revenge on one of her favorite doctors!)

A chance to visit the Star Flight helicopter--some more heroes

Frank with one of his heroes--Carolyn, a Child Life Specialist

Linam Family Update - September 16

2007-09-16T21:38:00.000-05:00

Well, it's official--both our kids are now ready for summer vacation! It seems the novelty of school has worn off extra-fast this year!

Maybe Abby's attitude has to do with the fact that the end of the third week usually brings the first round of tests, and this year was no exception. She did a lot of studying this week and did fine on tests in math, science, and English. She's putting in a little more time studying this year, but earning good results, so we'll go ahead and spend that little bit of extra time at the kitchen table each evening. The volleyball team also had good results this week. They lost a well-played home game on Monday, but won their game in San Antonio on Thursday. Abby played especially well in that game--coming up with several saves. Again, sports are more work now, but that work is paying off!

Speaking of hard work in sports, Frank worked out with a homeschool junior high basketball team last week. And boy, was it a workout! Those boys ran, with and without basketballs in their hands, for 90 straight minutes. Then Frank decided to run a few more layup drills while he was waiting for me to pick him up! We're not sure if he'll play with the team this year, but we might see about joining practices just for the conditioning. (Wonder if they have a toned-down version for Moms...?). He will also start practice for fall baseball this week, so our sports-crazy son should soon be content with plenty of athletic extra-curricular activities...

As for the parents, we just try to keep up with the kids, but they do their best to show their appreciation. They treated us to a homemade dinner on Friday, and then on Saturday they enjoyed helping us teach an aquatics workshop at a lovely nearby camp (we won't tell you the story about nearly being swept away in the Blanco River...) Today, believe it or not, Gordon and I actually had dinner out together alone, as Abby and Frank were with church friends--it's been a long time since we've done that, and life's too short to not grab hold of those special moments.

So, this week may you have a few minutes to appreciate the ones you love...
Love,
-the Linams

Linam Family Update - September 9

2007-09-09T22:19:00.000-05:00

I guess the big news from this week is that Abby played her first volleyball game of the year. The HCCS Junior High team couldn’t pull out the win, but Abby contributed some good serves and passes to the valiant effort. The HCCS team has a lot of potential, so I bet they’ll get some wins in the coming week, and I’m sure that Abby’s skills are going to continue to improve by leaps and bounds. Already I’m proud of all of them for the support they all show for each other...I have a sense these girls know what really matters…

On the homeschool front, Frank continued to make good progress on his schoolwork and his travel blog (check www.linamramblings.blogspot.com for the latest). I did take him on a wild lizard chase one day. We were supposed to be checking out a location of a horned lizard sighting in Austin, but all we found was a man that we rescued from some bumblebee stings. Frank's a happy camper this weekend, with the NFL season underway; both kids and Gordon got their fantasy football picks made this week. That's one hobby I can do without...

Otherwise, the weekend was not big news…lots and lots of work sorting through junk in our house…we tried to have a garage sale, but no one else wanted our junk either…maybe it didn’t work because we don’t have a garage…Anyone in need of a used front door?

Giving thanks for junk and more…
-the Linams

Linam Family Update - September 2

2007-09-02T21:22:00.000-05:00

Well, I guess we've settled into the reality of work and school and chores around here again. Was it only 10 days ago that we were hiking and eating green chile and hunting down lizards...?

(Can you guess which one is the homeschool student?)
Abby and Frank got off to a good start in school this week. Abby was very happy to see her friends, jumped right into 2 hours of volleyball workouts per day, and is doing pretty well in her classwork; however, she was already begging to play a little hooky by the end of the week! As far as the homeschool student, Frank, goes, I think his teacher's going to have to challenge him a bit more. With his great work ethic, he was finished with his assignments by noon on most days!

This weekend the kids have been enjoying a little time off--relaxing with some of their good friends. Abby and Taylor have enjoyed movies and swimming in the river, while Frank and Levi took in a couple of football games (Texas State University won; Wimberley High School did not). On the other hand, Gordon and I have been hard at work for our Labor Day weekend. While we were on vacation, the Oldmixons swept in again and "spruced up" the kitchen and guest room. This weekend we've been finishing up some final touches on the paint and new floors and moving furniture back in. The refinished guest room will be ready for visitors any time you can make it!

I'll just close with another word of thankfulness. Abby had an appointment with her rehab doctor this week. Once again, Dr. Leonard's words offered us a glimpse of just what a miracle Abby's recovery is. She's very pleased with Abby's progress--indicating that Abby had much farther to go than some patients, but that she sees so much life in her eyes now. She's helping us all look toward the future as well--telling Abby that some things may always be harder, but giving her encouragement that much of what she hopes for can be within her reach. Then she said to come back and see her at the end of the school year. I think she's slowly "cutting the cord"...That makes Abby (who's weary of doctors and hospitals) happy, but leaves me bittersweet. So many doctors, nurses, and therapists walked us through some very difficult miles; it's an irony that when they do their job best, then we leave them behind. All I can say is we will never forget them and never fail to be thankful for them. God bless them all.

And God bless those of you who have walked with us in spirit as well...may He walk with you this week...
Love,
the Linams

Linam Vacation Update - August 26

2007-08-26T22:27:00.000-05:00

Hiking in Zion NP

We're BACK! And the desert canyon country was breathtaking!

We packed a lot of sightseeing (and driving) into 13 days. Fredonia, AZ, population about 3,000 and home of my sister-in-law, Linda, is truly the center of the "Grand Circle." Plus, the scenery on the way there and back wasn't too shabby either (well, except for the flat parts of West Texas, which go on and on and on...). Frank had a great time climbing rocks. Abby had a great time riding every horse she could. I had a great time lizard- and bird-watching (and even had a close encounter with a California Condor!). I think Gordon had a great time too, even considering that he spent more than a week with all my family. And we all enjoyed the smiles from Linda and Greg's one-year-old daughter. I've decided that Frank's first writing assignment for homeschool will be to put his trip diary up on our travel blog (www.linamramblings.blogspot.com) [the link is in the side panel to the right], so feel free to follow along on our trip (and see LOTS more photos) as he starts posting to that site this week.

Speaking of homeschool, school starts tomorrow for both Abby and Frank. Frank has asked to homeschool again. I'm thankful that my work schedule allows me the flexibility to be with him (we actually work side-by-side quite a lot), and I'm thankful that he still wants to spend time at home and with me. Last year his homeschooling was a blessing in allowing our family to be together, but this year we're looking forward to a more normal year at home for school, God willing.

As for Abby, she very much wants to be back among her classmates at Hill Country Christian School, and I'm very glad for that. It's a warm, supportive environment, with a lot of Godly love. Because she was so far ahead in her schoolwork before the accident, the great news is that Abby will be able to start with her regular 8th grade classes. The downside is that I'm feeling like a tearful mother of a kindergartener again! I'm always very emotional the night before school begins, anyway, and this year brings extra emotions. One is that I know Abby may face some challenges in areas where she's never had them before. Please pray for her as she begins this year and faces those challenges. But the other side is mainly me--Abby and I have spent so much time together over the last 10 months. We're truly closer than we have ever been before (how many mothers of a 13-year-old can say that??), and I'm going to miss having her near me. So, say a little prayer for me too, okay? (She would be saying, "Okay, Mom, no crying.")

But, like all nights before school begins, there is much to do, so I'd better close--thanks for reading...hope you enjoy the photos below--keep checking Frank's diary for additional updates...
Love,
-the Linams

P.S. I almost forgot the mention a very special praise and prayer request! When we came through El Paso on our way home we stopped in to see Priscilla and her family. (Priscilla was the 18-month-old who was also a patient at Warm Springs when we were there, and her mother and I shared many emotions and hugs while there). She has improved so much--now being able to sit up, eat well, and use her hands, while starting to make some sounds and stand and move with support. She's such a beautiful little girl. We were happy to see her having come so far, but I know her family would cherish your prayers for her continued and complete improvement.

Abby riding "Lilly," a one-ton Shire

At Saguaro NP

At Cedar Breaks National Monument

At the North Rim of the Grand Canyon

Linam Family Update - August 12

2007-08-12T23:22:00.000-05:00

Just a quick note tonight, as I still have lots of packing to do. Besides, the little tasks of this past week won't be very interesting reading compared to the updates to come...

We leave tomorrow on our summer vacation to northern Arizona and southern Utah. This is the trip that Abby has looked forward to all summer--the chance to visit the places that her Aunt Linda (Greg's wife) grew up riding horses. The rest of us are pretty excited too. Linda's hometown, Fredonia, is 1-2 hours from the North Rim of the Grand Canyon, Zion National Park, Bryce Canyon NP, Lake Powell...it should be a great chance to explore some awesome country. We won't promise to blog on the trip, but there will definitely be some photos when we return in two weeks.

This week did have some bittersweet moments. We said so long to three of my co-workers who are moving on to new jobs, and all of whom have expressed so much affection for our family this year. We will especially miss my boss and friend, Pat, who introduced Abby to the world of dog agility. We'll think of her during those long days waiting outside dusty arenas...! On the other hand, today we visited with old friends at church who had returned for a visit. Abby and her buddy, Josh, picked up their friendship right where it left off seven years ago. We still think they're both pretty cute kids, but how did they get so tall???

But now, I really must pack, so keep our travels in your prayers and give a hug to someone you love while they're here with you...
-the Linams

Linam Family Update - August 5

2007-08-05T21:33:00.000-05:00

I'm happy to report that Abby is recovering rapidly from her surgery. We let her take it easy all week--watching lots of DVDs and drinking lots of milkshakes--but this weekend was back up to "Linam-speed!"

We headed home to Austwell and Victoria for the first time in several months for some special family events, but first we need to tell you a fish story...Gordon and the kids were eager to try some fishing from the Austwell pier when we arrived there Friday night. After only a few minutes Abby's tiny, cheap "perch" pole started bending and running out line, while Abby excitedly called, "I've got something!" At the same time, Frank's pole started bending and he called out "I've got something!" What Abby had was a 20-inch redfish. What Frank had was Abby's line. Just when we thought we were going to have to divide that nice redfish down the middle, like Solomon and the baby, Frank's line came unhooked and Abby landed Austwell's biggest fish of the night. The adrenaline kept us fishing for another couple of hours, but produced no more fish tales...or brotherly-sisterly competition...

On Saturday we attended the Linam family reunion, where we got lots of good barbecue and lots of hugs (and the kids enjoyed a pavilion soccer game). Everyone was especially glad to see Abby, but every time I tried to tell them some interesting story about our past year, like the trips to the TAMU softball games or Frank's All-Star season, they would say "Oh yes, I read it on the blog..." Hmmmm--maybe I shouldn't write everything, just so I can have something left for conversation!! Just kidding--it's an honor to have so many readers...and so many people praying for Abby...

Then back to Cuero for my niece Kayla's first birthday! She seemed genuinely happy with all the gifts, but especially happy about eating her first two cupcakes. Ahhhh--cake....! It was good to have all of the Texas Johnsons there. We also got the chance to visit Cheyenne and the other horses. Anyone in the market for a very sassy, very fat, but very healthy little mare??

Finally, we spent last night and today with Gordon's parents. Grandma Linam spoiled us all with some really great food as always. I'll have to do some serious hiking in Arizona next week to work it off...but now I'd better close and start tackling this week's serious packing...

Love,
-the Linams

Surgery update - July 30

2007-07-30T18:52:00.001-05:00

I can't believe that I find myself once again posting a blog update from the family-access computer in a hospital hallway, but I am....This time, however, there is much less fear in the air.

Abby did have her surgery today. Everything went well; however, the "missing piece" (a plastic cupped disk about an inch in diameter) managed to elude the doctors for about two hours. It had migrated significantly from its original site in the abdomen and was hiding under a thin layer of fat (has to be thin on Abby!) near the pelvis. Anyway, because the doctors thought that Abby might be fairly sore (they had to make two small incisions and did quite a bit of poking around), they suggested that she remain here at the hospital overnight. We really appreciate the extra concern and capability of Dr. Maxson (her ICU trauma surgeon) in overseeing the surgery, and, boy, was he finally glad to fish out that elusive disk after two hours! (Some of us with a little more hiding area in our bellies thought that they would have never found it if we had been the patient...)

So, thanks for your prayers--pray now that healing will go quickly, and Abby will enjoy the rest of her summer!

Love,
-the Linams

Linam Family Update - July 29

2007-07-29T23:03:00.000-05:00

I wanted to start with a prayer request. Abby will have a minor surgery tomorrow to remove a portion of her feeding tube that came detached and was left in her abdomen. The surgery will be at noon at the new Dell Children's Hospital in Austin. It is only expected to take about 30 minutes, and Abby will come home tomorrow, but it does involve general anesthesia. In addition, we are prayerful that the doctors will be able to remove the piece with a laparascope, rather than needing to make an incision into the abdomen. Thanks for praying with us...

Now, for the news update from last week....
Well, Abby spent the week down on the coast, and, though I don't have any pictures from her trip, you'll see in the photo from our trip this weekend that she looks relaxed and tan after spending several days there with good friends (and Taylor's very generous and patient mom). She had a great time!

Frank celebrated the success of his Little League All-Star team with a party with his teammates (in between flooding rain events in Wimberley) and received an award as the pitcher with the lowest earned run average. Gordon also received a gift of appreciation as the coach who kept all those stats...

This weekend's trip was to Fort Worth, where I had a Horned Lizard Conservation Society conference. For those of you who are native Texans, I'm talking about horny toads. For those of you that aren't, here is a picture of the fearsome, yet lovable, state reptile that all native Texans over the age of 40 have found memories of. It was a pretty busy weekend for me, but there were some fun events as well, such as a behind-the-scenes tour of the Fort Worth Zoo, a tour of the Fort Worth Nature Center (which my family loved so much that they visited twice...), and a visit to a friend and colleague's ranch. It was good to get away together and to not worry too much about the upcoming surgery (it was also good to get finished with my presentation and the stress of the preparations!).

Thanks again for reading and praying with us...
-the Linams

Linam Family Update - July 23

2007-07-23T12:51:00.000-05:00

Well, the theme of this last week was rain, so that's why I decided to start out the blog with pictures of the newly-created streams and waterfalls here on our property. It's been an amazingly wet week, and we are thankful to see the sun today and that we did not suffer any damage or much inconvenience with the local flooding.

Otherwise, it was a fairly routine week around here--thank God! We just caught up on chores, kept a few appointments, did a little work and reading...nice and boring (as Abby would say). (Although she did enjoy volunteering with the horses and riders at AWARE on Thursday.) Sunday evening brought our highlight, as we attended a Round Rock Express AAA baseball game with the Vests and Taylor and Abby's friend Hannah. The Vests bought the tickets at the Taylor and Abby fundraiser back in the fall, so it was especially sweet to share the experience with them, even if the Express couldn't pull out a win over the Oklahoma Red Hawks.

And now, Abby has joined Hannah and Taylor with Taylor's mom for a few days down at the beach. We're all jealous back here in Wimberley, but we'll head to Fort Worth together this weekend as a family. I'll be busy at a conference, but we should find some time for some family fun!

Thanks for reading--hope you have a blessed week!
-the Linams

Linam Family Update - July 15

2007-07-15T22:52:00.000-05:00

It was another busy week around here--well, we were around a lot of places actually.

As you can read below, the emotion-filled All-Stars season is over, but we're still trying to catch up on our sleep (and car maintenance--we had to buy new tires for the Honda after the tournament was over!!).

And you'll note that Abby had a wonderfully fun week--Taylor was over for several days, and the kids were pet-sitting, so two of her favorite things were happening!

This weekend was also one of our highlights of the year. Frank and Abby took Amigo and Arby to the State 4-H Dog Show in Hutto. It was touching in many ways, and both kids and dogs did really well. Frank and Amigo took 3rd place in Rally (a fun-type of obedience class) and 8th place in costume (they were Amazon warriors). We felt like this would be the last time we'd ask Amigo to "perform" (his arthritis bothers him more and more each year), so I was glad that he and Frank had a successful time together. Our other team, Abby and Arby, took 1st place in sporting dog conformation, 2nd place in obedience, and 9th place in showmanship. The most poignant moment for us, however, was when Abby and Arby did their freestyle drill routine--a fast-paced choreography of running, jumping, heeling, and embracing set to Tobymac's "Made to Love." They only placed 7th, but it truly felt as if the whole crowd somehow shared the emotion that we all felt at seeing the two of them out there together, celebrating love and life.

We continued the celebration today, with a wonderful church service this morning and a walk down to the river this evening. And now, we are looking forward to a quieter week in Wimberley, our hometown, out here on the edge of the Hill Country...

May you celebrate yours...
-the Linams

how (hello)

2007-07-11T23:07:00.000-05:00

Hey Abby's blog viewers! It's me, Abby, and my best friend Taylor (Vest). She's staying at my house all week!(till Friday at least).

What a day. We went swimming 3 times, went to the Library, and we are about to watch one of our favorite movie " She's the Man". We made a commitment to watch ONCE a day, if possible. Hopefully we wont go overboard and watch it 10 times in 4 days. It never gets old, no matter how many time you watch it.

Well, today was a simple day, nothing big. I had a small tumble on my bike, I was goin to fast, but nothing way over the top serious, didn't break any bones or anything like that, Thank the Lord!

O.k., we are pretty tired right now, swimming can exhaust you. Now, we must retire to bed to watch "She's the Man". See ya!

Abby & Taylor

Now, I guess it's over...

2007-07-11T00:35:00.000-05:00

and even Yogi Berra would have to agree....

Our Wimberley All-Stars just finally ran out of steam tonight in the final match against Fredericksburg. Though we held the lead for awhile, Fredericksburg played nearly flawlessly to pull out the win 13-6. Some of our kids weren't feeling well and showed a lot of courage to fight to the very end, and all of them seemed somewhat weary after the long tournament. It's been a fun ride, but we'll just have to wish Fredericksburg well in carrying the District Championship into the next round (and look forward to some earlier bedtimes for ourselves!).

(Will someone stop me if they see me driving west on FM 473 tomorrow afternoon about 4 p.m.? After nine trips to Kerrville in 11 days I'm afraid the auto-pilot will take over...)

Now, to bed...
-a weary baseball Mom

Wimberley 21, Fredericksburg 14

2007-07-10T00:18:00.000-05:00

What do you call it when you keep doing something over and over, despite the fact that it’s wearing down your body, all because it brings a huge rush? An addiction you say? Okay, I think we’ve got a Little League addiction going on here.

It’s midnight again, but we are all still on a high after watching the Wimberley All-Stars come from behind to defeat Fredericksburg, 21-14. Don’t let the score fool you—we were very worried up until the last inning, when Wimberley scored 14 runs to overcome a 7 run deficit. It was some very exciting baseball. Frank lost his 0.00 ERA, as some runs scored on him, but he put in a little over an inning pitching and helped Wimberley be in a position to come back.

So, none of us are sad that we have to make “one more trip” to Kerrville to face Fredericksburg on Tuesday evening. With the game count at 1-1, the winner of this match-up will claim the district championship and the “privilege” to keep pursuing this addiction…

Thanks for pulling for us!

-the Linams

Linam Family Update – July 9

2007-07-09T08:19:00.000-05:00

Let's see--last week we practiced baseball, we drove to baseball games, we drove home when baseball games got rained out, we drove back for more baseball games, we watched baseball games, Frank played baseball games, we drove home from baseball games, we calculated baseball statistics, and we celebrated that the Wimberley All-Stars ARE IN THE DISTRICT FINALS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's right, last night the boys beat Blanco 8-1 to earn the right to play Fredericksburg again in the finals. We didn't play well against Fredericksburg the first time, but Wimberley has played so well in the last several games that I think it will be a new game tonight. Keep us in your prayers--we have to beat them twice to win district, but, if these boys' stamina for driving to Kerrville and playing six days in a row can hold out, I think we've got a good chance!

We actually did do a few things besides baseball last week (though I'm not sure how...). Abby attended a horsemanship class at AWARE each morning. She rode an Appaloosa named "Happee," and that describes her attitude at spending each day with horses. She was also a good supporter for her brother and his team.

We also enjoyed visiting with family and friends. Dedicated grandparents made the trek to Kerrville to share the Little League excitement, and we enjoyed "crashing" with the kids' cousins, Kim and Karen, in Boerne one day as we waited for yet another game. Our good friend Jessie was home from Denver--we enjoyed a July 4th barbecue with her family, and Frank and Abby enjoyed some "Jessie time" again. Lots of "old" friends have joined us at church lately as well, with much joy at seeing Abby there.

Sometimes the hurriedness of this summer's schedule almost makes us forget that we once worried about all that the future would hold for our family. What a blessing that God has allowed us to return to the joy of family times spent together. We were reminded of that last night, as we were eating dinner with some of the parents from the baseball team. Another team mom sat down across from me and Abby. She told us that she had just found out that Abby was the young Wimberley girl in the accident, and, that even though we'd never met before this summer, she has spent the last year praying for Abby, reading the blog, etc. God's healing work in Abby continues to bring joy to many people, and we are very glad--for those that prayed and for the joy they have now...

Have a great week!
-the Linams

Saturday All-Stars Update

2007-07-07T23:35:00.000-05:00

7-7-07: Wimberley 7, Kerrville 1

We're still in it! (Frank says, "of course..."). Wimberley played great in the field tonight! Frank pitched four innings and still maintains a play-off ERA of 0.00. Tomorrow we meet Blanco (which is located 25 miles from Wimberley--wonder why we all have to drive 90 miles to play each other?...that's Little League for you!)

Keep these great boys in your prayers at 6 p.m.!

Baseball Update

2007-07-07T15:21:00.000-05:00

Thursday night: Wimberley 13, Hill Country 6

Well, the Wimberley All-Stars are still clawing their way back out of the loser's bracket. It's a tough go--with games scheduled every night in Kerrville, we're getting very weary of the drive. But some moments are inspiring. On Thursday night the team fell behind Hill Country 1-5, again following some fielding and throwing errors. But they didn't give up, and some of the youngest members of the team started a scoring rally over two innings that put Wimberley up 13-6 at the end. Frank came in as relief pitcher again--he's definitely got a very important niche on the team and much more calm aplomb than his mother in the stands...

The next game was to have been Friday night, but it was rained out by the Central Texas monsoons after we reached the fields. It's back to Kerrville tonight for a match-up against the hometown team, the Kerrville All-Stars.

All-Stars Boxscores - July 2

2007-07-03T11:04:00.001-05:00

Well, you can't be flawless every night, and one error-filled inning last night in Kerrville handed the Wimberley Texan All-Stars their first loss, 9-2, to Fredericksburg. Frank came in as relief pitcher for one inning, and good defense behind him helped him go "three-up, three-down," but Wimberley couldn't put the offense together that they needed to climb out of the hole.

So, it's into the loser's bracket, with the next game on Thursday evening. We could meet Fredericksburg again if we make it to the finals, so we'll hope we get the chance to show them a better game...

-Some sleepy Linams

Linam Family Update - July 1

2007-07-01T18:47:00.000-05:00

hi! (Abby's contribution tonight...)

I can't believe it...It's Sunday evening, the sun is still up, it's not raining, and all four human Linams and two canine Linams are home at 200 Hoots Holler! I can't remember the last time that happened...

Abby and Frank spent the week working out, getting ready for this weekend's activities. Frank continued his two-a-day baseball practices, while Abby participated in a conditioning camp at Wimberley High School. The speed, agility, and strength workouts the coaches put the kids through were pretty demanding, but Abby never wavered. She said that she was proud that she could do all the things (even lift the same weights as some of the boys!), and I was proud of her attitude. Like she said, she's ready to be the regular old Abby...

And now the weekend update: The Wimberley Minors All-Stars are still undefeated! They never gave Lago Vista a chance, winning their second game 22-6. Frank was ineligible to pitch, but got a single and a nice bunt. They play their next game on Monday at 8 p.m., again in Kerrville. We expect some competition there, as they will be meeting another team who has two wins in the play-offs. I'll post a score for you, so those who are interested won't have to wait until next weekend! (We could win it all by then!)

Meanwhile, in College Station, Abby and Arby were looking good on the agility courses. They ran eight events this weekend and received three firsts and two seconds in the junior handlers division. They were only fast enough to "qualify" (earn points toward an agility title) on one run (Arby developed some strange tunnel aversion this weekend, and Abby would have to spend several seconds trying to talk him into going into each one), but nearly all their runs were clean, meaning they made no mistakes. I can't tell you what a blessing that was. Agility is therapy in itself (don't tell Abby!)--it requires speed, agility (naturally), and, most significantly, a lot of cognitive effort, keeping a confusing course in your memory at high speed--so just being there, putting together all those successful runs, was a very huge blessing. And, of course, Abby and I were glad to get to spend some time with our dear friend, Ruth.

And now, off to another week, with more blessings of just being there and more--Abby will be going to a horseback-riding camp every morning and preparing Arby for the State 4-H Dog Show in the afternoons, while Frank will be eating, sleeping, and breathing baseball, I'm sure...

May you have a blessed week!
Love,
-the Linams

All-Stars Baseball Update - June 29

2007-06-29T23:16:00.000-05:00

Well, I just couldn't stay away a full week!! I figured you'd all want to know, so maybe I can just post some baseball box scores for you after each game...

The Wimberley Little League 9-10 year-old All-Stars played their first playoff game tonight and WON, 7-1! The kids played some inspiring defense in the field and had one great offensive inning that secured the win. Frank played some outfield, and then went in as relief pitcher in the 4th inning. He had five strike-outs in three innings, plus 2 RBIs in two at-bats. We all agreed that every kid had some outstanding play to contribute to the win, and that makes baseball fun to watch!

The boys play again on Saturday at 5 p.m. in Kerrville; however, Abby, Arby, and I will be headed to College Station early in the morning for a dog agility trial. So...we should still have much news to share by the end of the weekend....

Good night!
-the Linams

Linam Family Update - June 24

2007-06-24T16:03:00.000-05:00

Did you catch the new title? It's actually Abby's suggestion. Over the last few weeks I've been struggling with how much "you really want to know," with respecting Abby's need for some privacy, and, as you know, with finding time to write! But it was a conversation with Abby this weekend that made me see that it's time to move forward and leave some things behind.

I can see that, more and more, she's dealing with her accident and the effects that it has had on her life, and she is moving forward. She knows that she's "sick" of therapy, that she doesn't like hospitals (she's not looking forward to the minor surgery scheduled for July 30 to remove a part of her feeding tube), and that she still has problems with her memory, but you know what? Mostly, she knows that she just wants everyone to treat her like a "normal kid." When she told me that this week I knew it was the answer to some of my questions, and, together, we decided that this blog should now just be the story of our family. (And I decided that I'd go to bed earlier and just offer you a weekly update on Sunday evenings...!)

And so, here's the weekly "wrap" on our family news. As Frank was finishing his final day of basketball camp on Friday (he received the camp award for "Team Player," an honor of which I'm very proud), I took Abby to her therapy session. It was my first time to sit in on a session, and it was pretty insightful. The therapy, which uses a program called "Interactive Metronome," requires Abby to perform several motor tasks rhythmically following a tone generated by a computer. It's a "cutting edge" treatment approach and, in many cases, has been shown to improve the brain's efficiency or processing speed, along with benefits to memory and many motor responses. All I can say is that it's challenging (which seems to be important in brain therapy)--I did a terrible job when Abby's therapist let me try the simplest of the exercises! Similar treatments have also been used to counter cognitive declines associated with aging, so maybe I need to sign up for more sessions!!!!

Finally, I want to close this post with a huge "thank-you" to those of you who have been reading this blog for so long. I am humbled that you have poured out your care on us and on Abby. Your love and prayers have held us up and helped heal Abby to this point. Although right now she is weary of being the "girl that was in the accident" I will never stop telling her of the people who cried for her, prayed for her, cheered for her, and shared our great, great joy. As your reward, I want to share these two photos--one from October, 2006; one from Vacation Bible School last week. I think they say it all...Praise God.

Love,
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby & Frank Linam

Abby update - June 21

2007-06-21T22:47:00.000-05:00

How did it get to be 11 p.m. again?????????????????? I was hoping that, with the first day of summer officially here, it would finally be lazy and leisurely. No such luck...

Frank did have a relatively "easy" day, with only basketball camp going on. He even managed to win a ribbon today in the "Around the World" shooting contest. Winning prizes this year has been a little harder than in the past, as he and his friends got "moved up" to the middle school age group, so there are some much older (and taller) guys he's going up against.

Abby put in the complicated day today, spending the morning with Taylor, the afternoon with her youth group (unfortunately, the river tubing got rained out), and the evening with Merlin, her horse friend at AWARE. Probably only I saw it as complicated, as I think she enjoyed it all!

Well, even with it being the longest day of the year today, the sun has been long abed, so I think I'll sign off...Happy Solstice to you!
-Abby & Frank's chauffeur

Abby update - June 20

2007-06-20T22:35:00.000-05:00

Abby's not home right now (she and Taylor are spending the night at the Vests' tonight), but I bet I know what she's doing right now. Wonder how many times it takes to memorize She's the Man in its adolescent entirety...? Oh well, after so many months of work, the girl deserves a week of fun!

Abby did take time to do her civic duty today, as she worked her shift as a Junior Volunteer at the Wimberley Village Library. And I got a big hug from Susanne Beard, the head librarian there. Susanne has loved our kids for a long time (I tell everyone that she even loved Frank as a wild 18-month-old running around her Story Time sessions, when most librarians would have been tactfully suggesting that perhaps we come back "next year..."). The library staff and volunteers are truly another of the "families" that emerged when we needed their support, prayers, and love over the last year, and it has been joyous to celebrate Abby's return to one of her favorite spots with them. We continue to pray that reading will once again be one of her primary loves...

And, yes, Frank is still quite happily holding up to his ambitious athletic schedule. Tomorrow's an easy day. They get the day off baseball practice, so it's just 7 hours of basketball on his agenda!

Hugs to all of you,
-the Linams

Abby update - June 19

2007-06-19T22:15:00.001-05:00

No news from Abby and Taylor tonight, because this is where they are:

These two great friends have been having a great time together the last few days, including watching She's the Man seven times! Being around Taylor makes Abby very happy, and I appreciate her very much for that...

Frank's been having fun this week as well. Talk about stress--four hours of baseball and seven hours of basketball per day, with the remainder spent with two 13-year-old girls, but he's holding up well. The Wimberley 9-10 Year-Old All-Star team is looking pretty good! They get to prove their "stuff" in their first game next Thursday.

And, on the home-front, an update for the Linam Extreme Home Makeover Team: The fish are finally back home! One of the creative touches that Gordon and Mike Oldmixon dreamed up was carving out a place in the foyer wall to inset the saltwater tank, and, after many months of modification and system design, the tank is back in place, complete with water and fish. Thanks to Gordon's colleague, Kevin, for babysitting our fish and corals all those months!

One project down, a few dozen more to go...
Life is full...
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby & Frank (& Taylor)

What A Fun Day!

2007-06-18T21:59:00.000-05:00

Hey everybody! It's Abby & Taylor again. Boy we had a fun day. The only thing that wasn't fun was therapy.

Well, the fun started when we had to take Arby to agility. We were stranded there for over 30 minutes waiting on my mom to come pick us up. After that we stopped at a drug store to get some drinks. It was funny because I had to help Taylor pull 3 cups apart that were like glued together. When I tried to put them back in I kinda broke the cup holder and dented the cups. Of course Taylor was just standing there laughing at me. Then the owner of the store came up and said," You broke my cup holder huh?" We were kinda scared at the moment but then he popped it back in place and just kinda walked off laughing.

I was in the mood for an icy and I just couldn't decide which flavor I wanted... so I put a little of everything in it. The lid was almost overflowing.... but it gets worse. The lid starts leaking and the icy starts coming out. So I'm there trying to fix the mess I was making by sucking it up (not off the floor). Taylor, once again, was laughing even harder at the site of me cleaning up my mess. The owner said," Man! You still on the icy? You wanna mop it up?" He was just joking though.

So now we're home and tired! We watched the same movie 3 times today and are about to watch it again so we will have watched it 4 times today. The movie is really funny... it's called " She's the Man". You should watch it! It never gets old... no matter how many times you watch it!
Well, we have to go get ready for bed quickly so we'll have time to watch the movie so talk to y'all tomorrow!

Abby & Taylor

hi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-17T23:04:00.000-05:00

Hey Abby's blog viewers! This is Abby and Taylor (Vest) my best friend. We're here to give you an update of our own again. Well, today I did the usual... which is work with Arby, wishing I had a horse, and getting annoyed by my brother. The fun started when we met Taylor at the Corral. The Corral is an outdoor movie theater. The moon was very pretty tonight.... along with all the stars around it. The movie playing was Shrek the Third. It was pretty funny. Well, we don't have much planned for tomorrow except for interactive theropy, hanging out with Hannah (one of our friends), and having a fun day!

thats all we can think of so farewell till tomorrow night!

Abby & Taylor

Abby & Linam update - June 11-16

2007-06-16T11:02:00.000-05:00

Gordon's birthday dinner at Fazoli's
What a lot can happen in a week! Gordon turned 4_, The Spurs won their fourth NBA Championship, and we survived (and even mainly enjoyed) all the activities of our week. Abby and Frank had a great time at 4-H Arts and Crafts Camp (we really have some wonderful people to work with our kids in this county!), and Frank enjoyed his week of Vacation Bible School. He and we were very nostalgic to think of it being his last year as a student in VBS--where do the years go? To further add to the nostalgia, on some evenings when Gordon and I couldn't attend, Frank rode to VBS with Amber. It just doesn't seem like very long ago that Amber and her brother, Steven, were riding to VBS with me and Gordon, singing all the songs all the way there and back, stopping for snacks at the Tetco convenience store EVERY night, hoping on Sunday morning that they might be the big Schlitterbahn ticket winners...now Amber's working in the nursery and giving our kids rides to VBS (as for Steven, I don't know where he was last week!!). Since the time passage is inevitable, I guess all we can hope is that, as our kids grow up, they keep making that trip back to VBS to touch other kids lives...Abby was doing that too this week, as she and some of her friends helped out with the Bible stories on some nights (in between her agility practices, dog show practices, riding therapy, speech therapy, violin lessons...)
Trey crowns Abby with the VBS "cornucopia"
Now, on to the next round of memories--Frank started practicing with his All-Stars baseball team yesterday. He'll have "two-a-days" next week, in addition to basketball camp all day. Sounds tiring to me, but 11 hours of sports per day sounds like a dream to him. Abby has invited Taylor over to spend the week, so I think I'll turn the blog-writing over to the girls next week. Stay tuned--Taylor and Abby have a way of spinning a tale!!

Hope you all had and have a good week as well!
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby, and Frank

Abby update - June 10

2007-06-10T21:42:00.000-05:00

Okay, now that the Spurs held on to win Game 2, we can move on to blog and bed. We've just tucked in our own Manu and Tim (Abby and Frank chose #20 and #21 jerseys respectively for birthday gifts last year), and I think I'm going to follow "Pop" to bed pretty quickly...

Today was a very special day at church. It was our pastor's last Sunday, but the church was able to vote today to call his son, our current youth pastor, to serve as senior pastor. Both of these men and their wives have given so much of themselves to our church and its people, and, in the past year, they have also offered our family much love and support. Thanks, Pastor Jerry and Pastor Jeff.

It was also a special day because Frank played a selection on the piano during the church service. He did a good job on a peppy version of "Joshua Fought the Battle of Jericho." Abby would say it was a special day because the teens had a swim party after the pot-luck lunch. Gordon would probably say the pot-luck was special...

We did need our day of rest and relaxation today, because the rest of the week is going to be mayhem. Abby and Frank have 4-H crafts camp each morning and VBS at night. That's in addition to two therapy sessions, a violin lesson, 4-H dog project practice, agility practice, riding therapy, volunteering at the library, and pitching practice. Gordon has meetings out of the office on three days, while I have two workshops to prepare for and teach, plus we're both helping a little with VBS. I'm just warning ya--blog posts might be a little intermittent this week...!

Needless to say, we still welcome your prayers--and, as we pause to catch our breaths, we'll offer up some for you as well...

Love,
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby, & Frank

Abby update - June 9

2007-06-09T22:13:00.000-05:00

Gordon, his dad, and I all celebrated getting older today. It's inevitable (Wayne's birthday is today, while Gordon's is on Monday), so we figured, why not eat cake and homemade ice cream??? It was good to be together.

Afterwards, the Wimberley Linams all headed down to our favorite swimming hole on the Blanco River. Swimming at that spot again was one of those dreams I clung to during those long days in the hospital, so being back there together, snorkeling for fish, throwing rocks for Arby, enjoying the generosity of our river friends, the Buses, was an answered prayer (and a very enjoyable one, I might add!). Then, this evening, we watched a horse movie, Ruffian, on TV. I remember being Abby's age and being heartbroken by the tragedy of this great filly who had to be put down. I'm sure her horse-obsession fires were stoked again, but sharing those emotions together were priceless...

So, I'll just leave you with an image of our very special swimming spot. The photo was taken back in November when Abby was still in Warm Springs during one of my rare trips home. The river was clothed in autumn then, but today it was very alive with new life. Just like us...

Love,
-the Linams

yippee! it's summer!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-08T18:38:00.000-05:00

Hello fellow citizens,

This is my 1st week of summer, and I've enjoyed it. I'm liking it, and I wish all year long was summer! I'm very excited because we'll go to Arizona with Aunt Linda! This week I spent the night with Taylor Vest. It was fun, other than we were trying to avoid a stump in her go-cart and hit one! We tried to get it off, but there was a rattlesnake, so we hiked back up to her house. Luckily, the dogs were with us!

Tomorrow Grandma and Grandpa are coming here; it's his birthday. I am excited! ooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The End!
Abby

Abby update - June 6/7

2007-06-07T22:13:00.001-05:00

Sorry for no post yesterday. It was my birthday, so I set an easy pace (well, except for the early morning commute to Austin) and just enjoyed some of my favorite things—eating Greek and Thai food (not together!), reading a novel, floating on the river, and spending time with my wonderful husband and my two loving children. (Abby and Gordon even made me a breakfast pastry and a birthday pie!). The hugs I received were the best gift I could imagine, but thanks for all the well-wishes many of you sent my way!

Today was another good day, as Gordon and I enjoyed the cool morning at the lacrosse fields (a red-tailed hawk showed up today to chase all those parrots!) and Abby spent the day with Taylor. Frank even received a “Camper of the Day” award at camp! Afterwards my office provided more pie (no scales allowed during this week…). Tonight Abby started riding again at the therapy riding center. She pestered me nearly every day about horses during May when riding therapy took a break, so maybe getting back into the saddle will help meet her need for an equine “fix”…! Girls and horses…I guess I can’t complain, ‘cause I know a young red-headed girl who used to pester her parents the same way…

And now, Abby tells me I need to be downstairs watching the Spurs beat Cleveland with them, so I’d better sign off.

Go Spurs Go!

Lee Ann & the rest

Abby update - June 5

2007-06-05T22:19:00.000-05:00

Just a quick update tonight, as we arise early again tomorrow for the lacrosse commute--Frank's continuing to enjoy it--a lot! I stayed at the fields all morning working on some items--wavering between pride in Frank's improving skills and worry at the number of boys who ended up lying on the grass, clutching some body part that had been hit with a stick...

Gordon and Abby stayed home today and had some good father-daughter time, I think. This afternoon I took Abby to her violin lesson, where someone else's heart was moved to reach out to Abby. Abby's violin teacher, Paula, had written to a music professor at Vanderbilt University who makes teaching aids for violin, requesting to purchase a bowing aid that might help Abby stabilize control in her bow arm. When Dr. Plummer heard Abby's story, she wanted to send Abby one for her own use. Today Abby was able to practice with it, and I was so grateful for both Paula's and Dr. Plummer's thoughtfulness. Violin has been very stressful for Abby lately because of the tremors in her right arm. Just having something like this might prove helpful and might help Abby to feel that she do something positive to try to make some improvements. As Paula said, I think we need to add a dot in Nashville for Abby's prayer map...

We closed out the evening with a practice session for the 4-H dog show. Amigo was once again excellent at the long down-stays (lying down is his specialty...!), while Arby showed remarkable self-restraint in his when a ball bounced across his field of view. Abby and Arby are going to work on a musical freestyle routine for the show--we'll let you know how that's progressing...

Now I think I'll go work on my down-stays...8 hours would be nice, but I'll settle for 7...
Love,
-the Linams

Abby & Frank update - June 3/4

2007-06-04T22:05:00.000-05:00

When we went to bed last night the wind was blowing, the rain was pelting, and the power was off (sorry--no blogging), but we awoke (early) this morning to a great day!

Today was the first day of Frank's lacrosse camp in Austin. I'm afraid he likes it--afraid, because it takes a long time to drive to the UT lacrosse fields, especially in morning traffic (and maybe a little afraid because they gave him a whole bunch of burnt orange stuff--naw, maroon's still his color!). No kidding, he really had a lot of fun, as you can see...(he's the long-legged boy in black shorts, white jersey, and white helmet-- in their "armor" all of them tended to look alike today!)

Waiting for some action

Frank makes a move...

It can get a little rough out there!

One tired lacrosse player

Abby and I had a good time, too. It really was a beautiful, cool morning. We walked all the way around the athletic complex and had an amazingly good birding experience--seeing scissor-tailed flycatchers, ash-throated flycatchers, mockingbirds, grackles, killdeer, doves, and, believe it or not--parrots! I'd known that Austin is home to a feral population of Quaker parrots (aka monk parakeets), but it was still quite a surprise to find out that the piles of woody debris high up in the lights of the field were nests for hundreds of parrots! It just made me and Abby "home"sick for Australia and all its parrots...

Abby also started a new therapy today (although I've tried to avoid that word, I didn't really manage to fool her). We've learned of an innovative therapy called Interactive Metronome that uses rhythmic responses to improve brain processing time and organization. The therapist at Austin Neuro Clinic who offers this, Linda, described it as "physical therapy for the brain." IM has shown improvements in test scores, reading comprehension, attention, even athletic performance (that last attribute has been the biggest "carrot" for Abby). The treatments will involve two trips to Austin per week, but I've promised Abby that we'll try to tie them to fun activities like movies, visits to friends, agility practice, etc.--We just really feel that it's an opportunity that fits our availability this summer, so we'd like to take all the chances we have to move forward.

So, please pray for us--as we negotiate Austin traffic again (every day this week for lacrosse), for Abby to be able to enjoy her summer even with a little therapy, and for continued improvements--from IM and from God's hand...

Thanks for praying and for letting us ask...
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby and Frank

Abby's Friday and Saturday News

2007-06-02T14:11:00.000-05:00

We are having a Pirates of the Caribbean weekend. We watched 1 and 2 on DVD, and we are going to see 3 tonight at the Corral. I'm really a Pirate [fan].

I took Arby to the agility field and the vet, and we've been pet-sitting some friendly kitties. Frank as always is being a PAIN. I hope the movie is good tonight.

Farewell,
Abby Linam

P.S. News from Mom--Frank found out this weekend that he's been selected for the Wimberley Little League All-Stars team. Looks like our baseball season isn't over yet!!

Abby update from Abby

2007-05-31T21:01:00.000-05:00

Hey Abby's blog viewers! This is Abby & my best friend Taylor (Vest). We decided we might give y'all an update of our own for a change. Well, today we went with our whole class to Schlitterbahn for the end of the year field trip. I got some sun burns and Taylor got some minor sun burns. We went on some fun rides like the Master Blaster, the Wolf Pack, the Black Knight, and some other fun rides.

Whenever we left Schlitterbahn, we went to visit our blind friend Juanita. We had fun and we made a new little friend Sassy (a dog). We also chased some chickens and ate some delicious pizza. While we were chasing the chickens, we were having some second thoughts because of the way the chickens looked at us. Their eyes were full of evilness.

On the way home we had to stop at Levi's house( unfortunately he's one of Frank's friends who is spending the night). Frank & I had a plastic sword fight while we were outside waiting.

Now, Taylor & I are here at home. It feels good to be home except the fact that we are being harassed to death by Levi & Frank! Hopefully we will survive Levi's nonstop talking. He has settled down but it won't last for long.

Well, that's pretty much everything. We are thinking about going swimming again tomorrow so we better clean up. We are going to play the best family game tonight, Apples to Apples. Well, everybody have awesome dreams & stay safe!

God Bless!
Abby & Taylor

Abby update - May 30

2007-05-30T23:07:00.000-05:00

First, I just want to say thank you to all those who are continuing to read. I know that our posts lately have sounded like average family news, and yet that's the good news, isn't it? Over the course of this journey so many alternate images of the future have passed through our minds, but we have been granted the blessing of living life as an average family once more. I still ponder that perhaps the future for Abby and for us has been altered as a result of Abby's accident--perhaps in ways that we would regret, but perhaps in ways that will enrich us forever--I only know that we have been granted the grace to embrace it, whatever it holds...

And, so, with thanksgiving for average family news, I can tell you that Abby celebrated the final day of school today, that she is elated to have her friend Ashley over tonight, and that we enjoyed a beautiful walk this evening in the Blanco River Valley as the full moon rose over the escarpment edge and sunset colored the sky pink in the west. I can tell you that we are all looking forward to going to Schlitterbahn tomorrow, but that Frank has to finish his last two tests of the year first. And I can tell you that outside our front door are two golden retrievers that smell an awful lot like skunk...!

Life is full of blessings (if you can just get used to the smell...)!
-the Linams

Abby update - May 29

2007-05-29T21:54:00.000-05:00

Well, they're all tucked in, so it must be time to blog...

Actually memories were flooding over me and Gordon as we tucked Abby in and said prayers with her tonight. Abby had been wanting some quiet music to fall asleep with, so we pulled out a CD that one of her night nurses at Warm Springs, Lou, had given to her. Lou was a wonderful nurse--compassionate both to Abby and to us--we both have many memories of him in his dark scrubs slipping into Abby's room at night, quietly checking on her with his small penlight, encouraging us in the morning hours with his vision of Abby's progress to date and her progress yet to come. As the music he gave Abby (Delta Sleep) started this evening, it was as if we were back there in Abby's room, yet the fears weren't there--only the memories of comfort and being close to our dear daughter, focusing on our love for her. Thank you, Lou, for comfort and compassion in the dark hours...

I will tell you one more update from today. Abby and I studied and studied last night and this morning for her Health test, but, when I dropped her off for class today, I found out that she had taken the test yesterday, a day early! That little stinker! The bad news is that Abby couldn't remember that she had taken the test (she actually thought she had, but then wasn't sure), but the good news was that, with very little studying, she did okay on the test! That gives me encouragement for the tests yet to come...

But, no more for now--tomorrow is a fun day at school, then Thursday is a trip to Schlitterbahn Water Park. With sleepovers from friends planned and no more schoolwork, Abby is one happy camper tonight! That joy and Delta Sleep should give her a great night of rest.

May you have one too!
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby & Frank

Abby update - May 28

2007-05-28T21:38:00.000-05:00

Watch out! This morning all the Linams (including Amigo and Arby, naturally) were out on Little Ranches Road for the morning walk/jog. Gordon set a high standard, deciding to run most of the way, and I guess it was inspiring, because Abby and Frank each ran nearly a mile! My excuse is that Gordon has the running gene, and, while it's highly likely Abby and Frank inherited it, I could not have of course...Anyway, it was good to see Abby, who's always been somewhat of a natural distance runner, back in her stride...

The rest of the day went well. Abby's working really hard to learn a lot of material for her last Health test (who says the last week of school is just playing around??), and I feel like I'm still learning a lot about what works for her. I know she's looking forward to the summer break, and I'm encouraged by some recent conversations with teachers and therapists about some "fun" learning and rebuilding opportunities we could pursue this summer (Abby has forbidden me to use the word "therapy!"). Pray that we find the right balance of "non-therapy" and play for the summer...

I have a feeling that "play" portion will include lots of time in the water. The recent rains have the roadside pond near our house full of fresh, clean rainwater, so the kids and dogs and I jumped in this afternoon after school to cool off. I think that means summer has officially begun...

Bring it on!
-the Linams

Abby update - May 27

2007-05-27T21:22:00.000-05:00

Not too much news from today. Lots of showers in Wimberley and New Braunfels, and we enjoyed the blessings of being in our wonderful home following church. Abby enjoyed a surprise visit from Taylor, and I gave thanks for the friends that brightened her weekend and continue to be there when she needs them. We had to do a little studying for the tests coming up this week, but all of us had time for some music practice, some yoga, and a game of Sorry. The cello report is that Abby was singing along as I struggled through one song this evening, so I guess that means it was recognizable!!

Love to you all...
Abby's family

Abby update - May 26

2007-05-26T22:15:00.000-05:00

Today was one of those days when we needed more than one set of Linams. First, there was a 4-H horticulture show in San Antonio. Then a church friend needed some help moving in New Braunfels. Then there was a graduation party in Wimberley. Then friends had invited us to share a cook-out in New Braunfels. Then the 4-H Club put together an impromptu barbecue sale in Wimberley... I hate days like this--all of these people and events are dear to us (and many of them have been very good to us in the past few months), but I think I am also finally gaining some wisdom that "you can't do everything." So, we opted for the New Braunfels options--helping our friend move and enjoying some hamburgers with good friends afterwards.

I'm glad we did. I'd like to say that these days I'm trying to prioritize our lives based on the model of Christ-like giving that we received in the last eight months. Sometimes that sounds simpler than it seems to be in practice, and on a day-to-day basis, in the flurry of competing activities, I'm not sure I always get the order of things right; however, today, as I saw my kids carrying furniture, unpacking boxes, washing dishes, connecting cables for electronics (Frank's specialty!), etc., at least I'm satisfied with the choices we made...(but sorry to those that we missed!). It was a blessing to see Christ-likeness in my children--and today was a day I needed to see that simple, child-like faith was a blessing.

May you find Guidance for your steps as well...
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby and Frank

Abby update - May 25

2007-05-25T23:17:00.000-05:00

We walked down Memory Lane today--although there were some roads that Abby didn't care much to recollect...

Abby had an appointment this morning with the physical therapist in Austin who is working on her neck stiffness. Michelle thinks that Abby can improve her jaw discomfort with some stretching, rather than try orthodontics, which sounds like great news to us! Afterwards we dropped by St. David's just to say hello to the therapists in the Day Program there. It was great to see those wonderful professionals, but Abby didn't think it was very amusing when I told her she needed to sit in the waiting room and wait for her next therapy appointment...

Then on to Children's Hospital. We finally had a chance to deliver the toys that friends brought to Abby's birthday party to be donated to the hospital. The staff there were so happy to receive them, and we were glad to have the chance to drop into ICU to see if there were any familiar faces. Abby immediately got a big hug from Valerie and Lisa, two of our "warrior" nurses, as Gordon called them--nurses who often spent their entire 12-hour shift on their feet constantly monitoring and tending Abby as all her body systems struggled in response to the trauma inflicted upon it. What another amazing group of incredibly capable professionals. But what was even more amazing to me was to have them look up and recognize Abby--then she was so still and unresponsive, her essence defined by tubes and monitors, and now she's so vital and full of life. That ability to really see the patient beyond the life support systems must be, I think, the essence of nursing...

Then, this evening, Gordon and I were able to stroll a little further down Memory Lane, as we attended graduation for our friend, Steven. Steven (Amber's brother) was the first kid we met when we moved to Wimberley (as friends of Steven, we won't tell you the details...). Seeing him graduate made us proud, but also reminded us that life slips by very quickly--May we all treasure the moments that each day brings...

Wishing you special moments tomorrow...
-the Linams

Abby update - May 24

2007-05-24T21:06:00.000-05:00

Tonight Abby would probably tell you--"one school-day down, only three more to go!" (And three more tests, unfortunately...). But, I don't think I'll convince her to tell you anything tonight, as her good friend Hannah is over for the evening (Hannah is the other faithful friend pictured in the series of photos on our April 26 post). Two comrades in chocoholism, they're currently eating brownies and ice cream and watching Left Behind...

Today was an unusual day for me, as Hannah's brother had Frank over for a visit, and I found myself "kidless" for a couple of hours. I headed to the pool--my favorite place to unwind--and had a very poignant encounter. I ran into the obstetrician who shepherded Abby and Frank into this world (she believes in swimming as therapy too), so when she asked me how my kids are, I felt like she would want to know about Abby. What I didn't know was that she lost a 13-year-old daughter who was hit by a car in 1987. We shared a hug, but I struggled again with the injustice of gratitude for our gift of healing versus sorrow for someone else's loss. And yet, God showed his grace once more. She told me how, as parents, they felt the loss so keenly and, of course, wished that more could have been done to save their daughter, but how, as a doctor, she has found peace with a knowledge that each year brings more opportunities to save lives, and that, along the way, those who were lost have a part in the knowledge of healing that now exists. What an incredibly generous perspective, and yet she is on my heart and in my prayers tonight...

With thankfulness for Grace that is sufficient...
Abby's family

Abby update - May 23

2007-05-23T21:57:00.000-05:00

Good news! Abby made a 90 on that tough English test today! As I sent her off this morning, I wasn't sure I could make an "A" on that material--trying to remember all those present perfect tenses being formed from those past participle parts...what an answered prayer! She's so motivated, too--she wants to finish her other subjects too, even though it's not required (she's just doing review material for the most part), before school's out next week. (Although, mostly, she just wants school to be out...!)

We had a nice evening, too, celebrating with Frank's baseball team at their end-of-year party. And, now, everyone except me is asleep, so I'm signing off...

Thanks for reading!
Abby's family

Abby (& Yankee) update - May 22

2007-05-22T22:21:00.000-05:00

Well, we're already feeling a little nostalgic--tonight was the last night of Frank's 2007 Little League baseball season. And the answer to your question is, "Yes--the Yankees pulled off an undefeated season!" The young Indians team was playing some excellent defense on us, but when Coach Amy sent "Lights Out Linam" in to pitch with the Yankees down by two (and the bases loaded), the Indians said "good-bye" to their offense. Frank had 10 strike-outs and allowed no hits in 4 1/3 innings as he closed out yet another game. What really pleases me, however, is that Gordon said some of the younger players really look up to Frank. I'm glad to think that his humble, hard-working attitude sets a good example for them.

Speaking of hard work, Abby did some pretty good work in the batting cages this evening. For the first time she hit some live pitches with her bat, and she looked really good. I'm very hopeful that next spring we'll once again be living the hectic life of a two team family and that Abby will be her own wonderful example for young players.

Please do keep Abby in prayer this week. She has several tests at school, and, while she's working very hard to prepare, tests are still quite challenging to her. The first one today in Health went okay, but the English one tomorrow may be tough. Pray that she won't be discouraged in preparation or the outcomes.

Thanks for all the prayers--Abby and the Yankees appreciate it!
Love,
-the Linams

Abby update- May 20/21

2007-05-21T22:14:00.000-05:00

Now that the weekend’s over we’ll try to catch our breath and catch up…the Sabbath being a day of rest is a good idea…in theory…

Lots of events were happening at church yesterday (Abby even joined the teen group for a game of volleyball in the evening), while between events Abby and Frank provided a dog-washing for Boots, a sweet Australian shepherd that belongs to our friend, Bob. The many and diverse events of the day gave me pause to treasure God's faithfulness—Last fall Abby also gave Boots a bath, but at that time Bob was very sick and Abby was well. I went to College Station yesterday afternoon to visit a co-worker who lost his wife to cancer last week, while Gordon and the kids attended a reception honoring the graduating seniors in our church. On the surface all the events seem incongruous--illness and health, sadness and excitement--but at the same time they all speak of love in our lives and hope for the future and God’s faithful presence through the highs and lows.

Speaking of highs, Frank had another one this weekend. A slightly belated birthday present arrived from our Aggie friend, Ruth. You all know the story of how the Aggie softball team (currently NCAA regional champs and still playing—whoop!) became a part of Abby’s healing story. Now the Aggie basketball team has joined the story line. Ruth told their office about the events in our family’s lives, including how Frank, a huge basketball fan, has been a very faithful brother throughout the past year. In response, the basketball team, which usually only gives signed balls to a few select charity events, provided Frank with a ball signed by all the members of this year’s Sweet-16 team. He’s a happy boy—and I am amazed again at how hearts have been moved to compassion on our behalf…

Thanks for being a part of all that love, compassion, hope, and faithfulness that has touched our lives…

-Abby & Frank’s family

Abby update - March 19

2007-05-19T23:51:00.000-05:00

Cricket frogs, leopard frogs, and narrowmouth toads were calling on Hoots Holler, but only cliff chirping frogs were active at Guadalupe River State Park--oh wait, I guess that's not the update you logged in to read...

Okay, I just got in from giving another amphibian presentation, but we had plenty of other activities today too. In fact, the kids and Gordon were out under the stars tonight as well, with The Astronaut Farmer showing at Wimberley's outdoor theater.

In the morning Abby and Arby joined Wade and Shadow for agility class (allowing the rest of us to stay home and get a few more chores done--we've actually reclaimed our deck from the remodeling project now!). Thanks, Shadow, for sharing "your" car with Arby!

The afternoon included yet another baseball game and yet another win for the Yankees. The Giants gave them a good game--I love how all these boys become better players as the season goes on--but the Yankees used some hitting late in the line-up and some beautiful pick-offs by the catcher to remain unbeatable. Frank did his part--coming in to close when the starting pitcher tired and hitting a ball straight down the first base line for the second Yankee home run of the night!

Thanks for reading--may you have a blessed Sunday!
Love,
-the Linams

Abby update - March 18

2007-05-18T22:18:00.000-05:00

It was another beautiful day in Wimberley--a day that makes you glad to be alive. And we were glad.

For the most part, the kids and I enjoyed a day around home. Our one excursion, besides Abby's violin lesson, was to visit our friends, the Carlsons, at Straight Arrows Ranch. The Carlsons, like we, are big golden retriever fans, and they had invited the kids out to see their seven little fluffy 6-week-old golden retriever puppies. There's nothing like "puppy therapy," and we enjoyed visiting their miniature donkeys, chickens, cats, and even corn snake as well. I checked behind the kids' backs before leaving--just to make sure no extra animals were making the trip home with us...

We saw the Carlsons at the violin recital last weekend (their younger sons are also students of Paula's), but I couldn't help but think of the previous time we saw them all together as a family. They came to visit Abby in Warm Springs on November 1. Each one of them was so thoughtful in speaking to Abby, but Abby couldn't respond. At that point in time each of us was speaking to her in faith that she knew who we were, that she understood what we were saying, that one day she would be able to communicate back with us and with her dog again... Some days I didn't know if that faith was big enough, but, thank God, our mustard seed grew, and today Abby walked and talked and played with puppies!

We're thankful for all of you who, like the Carlsons, walked in faith with us all that long way...
-Abby & the Linams

Abby update - March 17

2007-05-17T23:34:00.000-05:00

Just a quick update tonight, as it's almost tomorrow...

Abby had a good day today, but she had a wonderful evening! It was so lovely outside, and--perfect coincidence--her agility group was having a "games night" at the field. It was my first time back there with her and Arby for a class. It was like we never were away, and yet it was sweeter than ever before. Abby and Arby did great! He was so focused and fast (especially considering his lack of formal practice at the field over the last seven months), and Abby did a wonderful job of handling him in a very different type of game with lots of confusing rules. She even figured out one obstacle sequencing that everyone after her wanted to copy! It was a beautiful evening in every way, and we were glad for those that shared it with us...

Frank's still a little sore, but not so "oozey" today. Did I mention, to add insult to injury, that he also got stung by a bee after his three vaccinations yesterday? He's hoping for no more injections for awhile!!

Okay, bedtime!
Good night,
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby, Frank, Amigo & Arby

Abby update - March 16

2007-05-16T22:31:00.000-05:00

Abby worked hard today.

Have I ever shared with you what a source of inspiration she is to me, even aside from her remarkable recovery? Abby has always been a good example for me. She has always made healthier eating choices than I have, she has always sticked to an exercise program better than I have, she's always been on the alert for my bad habits, like biting my nails, she always sees the best in situations and in people (well, except maybe her brother)...

Today it struck me that it is a blessing that she has that element of discipline and attitude. This morning she ran nearly a 1/2 mile during our morning walk. Frank and I were waffling on the decision (well, I was anyway), but Abby took off running. When she got home from school she asked if it was time to practice piano or violin and then sat down immediately to practice. This evening after dinner she sat down and did over an hour's worth of homework. None of those things are as easy for her as they used to be, but she's ready and willing to tackle them.

Lately I've been realizing that we still need to be very purposeful in working toward Abby's recovery--that we need to locate the things that are challenging and not neglect them. Watching her today, I realized that she is still willing to work very hard--we just need the wisdom and the help to guide her in the right way.

Thanks to those of you who are part of that process (Abby was very happy to see friends at the Wimberley Village Library today as she joined the training for the summer junior volunteer program--another good therapy in my view!). Please continue to pray with us for wisdom and insight along this path...

With gratitude,
Abby's family

P.S. Just a quick prayer request for Frank (who has his own fair measure of self-discipline as well...). He received three vaccinations today, which left him not feeling very chipper (kind of "oozey" he said.) Gordon's already nervous that Coach Amy has asked him to fill in as coach for the undefeated Yankees this weekend, so he's really hoping his starting pitcher is not oozey...

Abby update - May 15

2007-05-15T21:57:00.000-05:00

Today had a little different twist. Because Abby had a dentist appointment right in the middle of her school-day, she just did all her schoolwork at home, which gave us a good chance to work together on some subjects and a good chance for her to complete a writing assignment. Working closely with her like this I can see some things that are still challenging, but today I could also see that she's still improving in all her subject areas. We started out this process asking for improvement day-by-day, and I'm thankful my eyes can see it...

The dentist today took a look at some jaw pain that Abby's been having. It feels like TMJ, but he feels that it's being caused by some uneven tightness in her jaw muscles. Although Abby had complained of some jaw pain before the accident, it seems likely that the trauma and the resulting stiffness she's had to work through in her neck and shoulders may have added to that initial propensity for problems. He'd like for us to consider using orthodontics to provide her with some muscle relief and see if that helps; we'd also like to see if we can find some physical therapists with some familiarity with jaw issues.

After all that schooling and teeth-cleaning, we and the dogs were glad to spend the evening practicing with some of the other 4-H members and their dogs. Frank and Amigo enjoyed the chance to practice some Rally Obedience (a more "participant-friendly" form of obedience), and Abby and Arby are looking really good in preparation for the state 4-H dog show in July. Since they won their obedience class last year they have to compete at a new level this year. I'm just so amazed--a few months ago I remember thinking that maybe I could request a special exemption this year to allow Abby to compete in one of the lower level classes, and now I think she and Arby look ready to win at the higher level. God is good, and dogs (God spelled backwards) are good therapy...

I had another special moment this evening. It's not much really--just involves an after-dinner mint--but it reminded me again of how far we've come. While Abby was in ICU someone gave us a bag of York peppermint patties. Both Abby and I love them, so I promised her, sleeping there, that I would not let them all be eaten, that I would save a few for her. I forgot where I tucked them away, but yesterday she found them in one of her bags. This evening when she came in eating one after dinner, I was just overwhelmed again how good God has been to us. She's come so far. (And, boy, was I thankful, I didn't get tempted to finish the whole bag!!).

Thank you all who gave so much to us, and, especially, whoever gave us those York mints (by the way, we are out of them now...hint, hint...)
-the Linams

Abby update - May 14

2007-05-14T21:36:00.000-05:00

It was a quiet day in Wimberley and San Marcos, out here on the edge of the Hill Country, and, after that busy weekend, we were glad to have it! Abby and Frank did their schoolwork and practiced music and sports, and, much to Arby’s and Amigo’s excitement, we took both a morning and evening walk! (Amigo even got a “deep-skin” grooming from Frank, and our sidewalk shows it…) I also had time to practice cello and read my Bible, so I’m feeling rejuvenated as well. And look what time it is on this blog post! Aaaaah—if only every day were so well-planned (we’d be bored…)

But for now, I’m enjoying the serenity (if only I don’t look at my dirty kitchen floor…!)
Serenity now!

-the Linams

Blog Maintenance P.S. After hearing that commenting as a registered user is rather complicated (mostly from my dear Mom). I’ve decided to allow anonymous comments to the blog. Hopefully that will make commenting much easier without adding too much junk to the site. For you veteran commentors, hang on to that identity and password, just in case we need to go back to the “old” system…

Abby update - May 13

2007-05-13T23:08:00.000-05:00

What a difference a year makes. I honestly don't think that I remember what we did last year on Mother's Day, and maybe I won't remember what we did today, but I know that I'll always remember that Mother's Day 2007 was the year I knelt in gratitude to God for giving me Frank and re-giving me Abby. As I knelt beside their cozy beds in their messy rooms tonight and remember back to those long nights of kneeling by Abby's bed in ICU, my heart overflows with thankfulness and I am blessed.

Just for posterity's sake, here's what we did today. After a busy morning at church we went to my brother and sister -in-law's house in Cuero to join my Mom there for a cook-out. Abby had a good time visiting with her cousin Kayla and with her horse, Cheyenne. Frank had a good time flying his remote control airplane and eating poppyseed cake (the final of his several birthday celebrations). Oscar, their Jack Russell Terrier, and Chuey, their giant Great Pyrenees, enjoyed all the company, including a chance to meet Gordon's parents and sister later in the day.

So, maybe I will forget the details, but I think we all will treasure the spirit of love and blessings that this day brought to our hearts...
Love,
Abby's Mom and family

Abby (and Frank) update - May 12

2007-05-12T21:59:00.000-05:00

Hello everyone. It's me again. Mom, the Blog-writer. (Any Hank the Cowdog fans recognize that intro?) If only blog-writing were the only hat I wore this weekend...but, what's to celebrate in a uni-dimensional Mom, anyway??

We all have had a good weekend so far. Gordon survived and enjoyed the airsoft field wars. We pitched a tent at the backside of our property (as far away from my house as I could get it!), and Frank and his half-dozen camouflaged comrades-in-arms cooked over an open fire, scrambled in and out of ravines, and went on countless missions, day and night. It was really a beautiful evening, and Gordon and I enjoyed pretending we were getting "away from it all" at the campfire 100 yards from the house...

Meanwhile, Abby recruited Taylor to walk in the Wimberley Relay for Life for the American Cancer Society with her last night. The girls retired to Taylor's house sometime in the night, while I took my turn walking the track just before sunrise. Though I missed walking with Abby, I enjoyed the chance to walk in the solitude this morning and reflect on the many friends and strangers who have faced their own battles and to marvel at the grace, strength, and hope so many have found. God bless Dulci (the young Honduran girl at the San Antonio Ronald McDonald House who has been battling cancer for over a year) and all those in need of hope and a cure...

And, speaking of grace, strength, and hope, this afternoon Abby played in her violin recital with the other students of Paula Bird. When we began day therapy at St. David's in Austin they asked us for specific goals for Abby. One of ours was that Abby would play in a violin recital this spring. Just setting that goal and seeing it fulfilled was such a source of inspiration and encouragement for us and for many in the audience. We appreciate Paula's deep love for Abby and the prayers of so many families in her studio. And we think Abby is a warrior (a beautiful and talented one, don't you think?).

So, for tonight, this Mom is again burning the midnight oil, but, oh, won't there be reasons to celebrate my blessings tomorrow!
Blessings to you...
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby, and Frank

Abby update - May 10

2007-05-10T22:51:00.000-05:00

All I can say is I'm glad Abby didn't ask for a day of "hooky" today, because I would have been tempted to grant it to her! It was such a pretty day! We had a beautiful walk in the hills around Hoots Holler this morning, and, again, Abby's attentiveness to the moment made us all give thanks to live in such a pretty place.

But, with great discipline, we refocused, did homeschool, and then took Abby into school at Hill Country. Frank and I had some important stops to make anyway, as a battalion of his friends are invited over tomorrow night for some airsoft wars and a campout in the woods. We bought the Sam's Club-size package of hot dogs, along with other provisions. General Gordon is assigned to the troops for the night. Abby, on the other hand, is participating in the American Cancer Society Relay for Life in Wimberley with the local 4-H club. I'll probably bounce back and forth between the two events. I certainly want to spend some time walking, praying, and reflecting at the Relay--so many friends and acquaintances have faced their own ordeals with cancer lately; I want to experience the Hope that this event reminds us of. Needless to say, I wouldn't check for a blog update early Saturday morning if I were you...

One other special event is on the horizon. Abby is playing her violin in a recital on Saturday at 2 p.m. That will be an emotional milestone for us as well. Give us a call if you want directions to the recital location!

Oops--I can't close without a baseball update. The Yankees continued their unbeaten season tonight. Frank had some really great defensive plays at 1st base, including a stretch and scoop that left him shaking sand out of his glove (but not before getting the out). Poor Cubs--they played one of their best games of the season, but the Yankees were great in the field!

May you have a blessed weekend, with time for reflections of your own...
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby and Frank

Abby's brother's update - May 9

2007-05-09T22:05:00.000-05:00

Well, the world of "10 and under" prices is now gone forever for Frank. That's right--today he turned 11, and we had a great day.

Frank and I have developed this wonderful tradition of taking his birthday off and just doing things together, and, I've got to tell you, it's one of my favorite days of the year. It usually starts out with breakfast at the "Pancake" restaurant in San Marcos (although this morning he also had a "warm-up" doughnut at home before our brunch out). After that we played a round of putt-putt golf, bowled a game, enjoyed some key-lime pie in celebration of my friend and co-worker, Andy's, birthday, and then shopped at the second-hand sports store and Toys-R-Us. Probably the only thing Frank didn't enjoy about his birthday was the 4-H meeting this evening that went "on and one" (one of Abby's favorite phrases), but even it ended well when I brought out Frank's favorite, cherry o'cream pie, to share at the potluck dinner afterwards.
The birthday gift theme was lacrosse, so thanks to Ebay and Play-It-Again Sports, I think he's going to at least look like a lacrosse player when he goes to camp this summer.

It's been a touching year with Frank in many ways. He has had to deal with a lot of feelings and a lot of disruption and, as I look back, I can truly say that he has matured into a young man of whom I am very proud. Though sometimes he expresses frustration (when I asked him recently why he didn't yet know some aspect of his grammar, he replied, "Mom, I spent all this year doing my schoolwork in hospitals..."), his heart is so good in his desire to help Abby. And, though sometimes Abby is quick to only note the "annoying" behavior typical of younger brothers, I pray that she, too, will see his heart and his desire to be close to his sister.

As for me, I can only say that troubles more clearly reveal your treasures, and I'm glad I have these two...
Love,
Frank and Abby's Mom

Abby update - May 7

2007-05-07T21:46:00.000-05:00

I've been trying to talk Frank into writing tonight's blog, but he's opting to read a book on sharks instead. Imagine that! I thought perhaps I'd let him give you the scoop on tonight's game, but I guess I'll have to report that with the Yankees got another win. Frank was the closer again. He struggled with a very tight strike zone, but still managed to get three strike-outs to finish out the final inning (Gordon has dubbed him "Lights Out Linam.").

Abby had a pretty good day as well. She had an assignment to memorize some scripture verses and had really been struggling with it, so today I asked her speech therapist to work with her to develop some memory strategies. The two of them used a combination of singing some parts and memorizing some key words, and, by the end of the hour, she could do it! I've been worrying about these "finer" points of recovery so much lately--focusing on them really--so seeing her accomplish that task was good for me. I also just had a real peace this morning as we took our morning walk that God wants to make Abby fully whole again, and that I need to stop focusing on the missing pieces and instead celebrate each day's joys and accomplishments.

That kind of focus should make each day go better!
Joy to you...
-the Linams

Busy Weekend

2007-05-06T20:47:00.000-05:00

I had a busy weekend this week!
I stayed with Amber this weekend, and we had lots of fun. I went to see Meet the Robinsons at Wimberley's outdoor theater, and it was pretty funny! On Saturday we went to the outdoor church picnic. I played football with the teens, and someone stepped on my foot while I was running and twisted my ankle--ouch! It is feeling better now though.We also went bowling,and I got a s-t-r-i-k-e!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fun weekend,
Abby

Abby (and Frank) update - May 5

2007-05-05T22:14:00.000-05:00

Sorry for the missing posts--there's plenty of news--just no time to post it!

After I spent one more evening out with the frogs on Thursday, we shifted gears on Friday and got prepared to take Frank to the state academic meet in Fort Worth. However, Abby came up with an alternate plan. She was looking forward to several things going on in Wimberley and New Braunfels this weekend, so we arranged for our friend Amber to hang with Abby. Amber has been a great baby-sitter, sister, and friend to our kids ever since they were born (we've know her since she was a precociously talkative five-year-old), and both kids really like spending time with her. She's always seen Abby as a baby sister and has shared tears and joy with us over the last seven months. Anyway, the new plan left Abby with a large smile on her face as we pulled out on Friday afternoon. They had a great time together. I think. Gordon, Frank, and I actually arrived home from Fort Worth to discover that Abby and Amber were still out enjoying themselves. Okay, so I guess I'll have to make Abby write tomorrow's post so she can tell you how her weekend was...

As for the rest of us, we had a good trip to TCU in Fort Worth. Frank did a great job on his math and geography tests, but, as I've told others, there are a lot of extremely smart-looking kids wandering around TCU on this particular weekend, so he fell just short of bringing home any medals. He's had a great attitude about just qualifying to compete at state, however, and we grasped further consolation by noting that not many of those kids looked like they were also starting pitchers for their town's best Little League minors team. Okay, so maybe looks aren't everything, but we're proud of our all-around kids. And, definitely, competition isn't everything...

We did miss Abby at TCU this weekend. We of course missed having her with us, but we also had some moments of sadness that she wasn't there competing. Abby actually has competed at state in three different events in the past, and we hope that she's able to compete there again one day, simply for what that would represent. But, God certainly knows that competitions aren't everything, so mostly we hope and trust that she will be where He wants her to be...in all the fullness that her life should have...

But, right now, she should be in bed, so I better close and see what's up with those two blond lifelong friends...!
Mom, Dad, Frank (and hopefully soon Abby) Linam

Abby update - May 2

2007-05-02T22:23:00.000-05:00

With the boom of thunder and streaks of lightning going on outside right now, I don't think I'm going to keep my fingers attached to an electronic device that pulls lots of amps for very long this evening. Besides, everyone else in the house (including the two dogs) are all bedded down together downstairs for comfort, so I need to join them!

So, just a short note to say everyone had a good day today. We squeezed a walk in this morning between the thunderstorms of last night and today. Abby's second test went well (a 92!), and Frank's 2nd and 3rd tests went well. I'm almost ready for my fourth workshop in 9 days (in Boerne tomorrow), and, as a result, I didn't pursue my new hobby tonight.

Oh yeah, my new hobby...I failed to tell you the story of how Frank thought his mom had gone over the edge yesterday. We'd gone to a string shop (as in violins, cellos, etc.) to get a small repair done on Abby's violin. Much to Frank's amazement, as we waited on the repair, I told the young man behind the counter that I'd like to rent a cello! Actually, I've always loved the cello, and, maybe it's like a lot of things you think of when you're in your mid-40s, but I just thought, "now's the time to learn!" So, we loaded a cello into the back of the CRV with Frank's baseball gear and our gym bag, and I brought a cello home. I discovered that I do really love the sound of a cello, but that getting it to make music is not one of those immediate gratification things. So, now my theoretical schedule for each day (note the emphasis on theoretical) includes cello practice time...I'll let you know when music finally emerges. All I can tell you is that, if Abby is still willing to practice the violin, even with all the trouble her hand tremors give her, then I certainly can spend some time with my cello--she inspires me.

Okay, that last lightning strike was close enough--I'm signing off, and dreaming of Yo Yo Ma...
Abby & Frank's crazy mom

Abby update - May 1

2007-05-01T22:06:00.000-05:00

Someone brought home a report card today—someone who hasn’t had a report card in over six months…and it looked pretty good!

Abby was only 0.6 points away from making honor roll this six weeks (and Hill Country requires an average of 95 for honor roll!). Although it’s the first time she’s ever missed making honor roll and although she is not doing the volume of work that her peers are, we are celebrating where she is—remembering that in November she could not even speak words; remembering that in December she was reading words, but not really comprehending them; remembering that in February she could comprehend them, but not remember them; remembering that the healing can continue…

But, no time for sitting on laurels…Abby had to take a spelling test today (she made a 95, with lots of memorization required). Tomorrow she has to take a social studies test, so keep her in your prayers. And just to be fair, Frank is taking five tests this week (his “teacher” didn’t do a very good job of spreading out his work…), while also preparing for his state competitions in geography and math this weekend, so he’d probably appreciate a little help from Above too!

Thank you for continuing to read and to pray for our family. We currently have several friends and colleagues who are surrounded by heartbreak, and, though we’ve always tried to let people know that we are “thinking of” and praying for them, we feel like we now personally know what those prayers can do. They lift you up to a God who can give you peace when you can’t find hope, and, though God has been gracious to us in Abby’s healing, we have a renewed belief that those prayers can hold you up when all around is despair. Keep praying—for Abby and for all those you love…

With prayers for you…
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby and Frank

Abby update - April 30

2007-04-30T22:43:00.000-05:00

Shhhhhhh--don't tell any doctors or therapists or teachers, but Abby's staying up way past her bedtime this evening. The Spurs' playoff game is finally on network TV, and Abby and Frank are such big Spurs fans that we agreed to let them just bed down in front of the TV. It's okay--Abby's morning homeroom teacher (A.K.A. me), told her she could sleep into a little of her math time tomorrow--just this once...

I think Abby's like most 7th graders these days and has just a touch of spring fever. Sometimes it's sometimes hard to know what's still injury recovery and what's a typical adolescent. Would Abby before the accident still have lost her spelling workbook today and have no clue where it is? We'll never know...so I'll just pray for recovery both from traumatic brain injury and from being 13... ;-)

Go Spurs Go, Go Abby Go...!
Love,
-the Linams

Abby update - April 27-29

2007-04-29T22:02:00.000-05:00

Well, I rolled in late Saturday night from Wichita Falls only slightly behind Gordon and the kids and their busy weekend. But, I've got to tell you that Mr. Mom did a great job negotiating a full kid schedule, along with a little help from our friends...

Abby reports that she had a great time at the sleepover at Taylor's; that she had a good ride on Merlin at the therapy riding center; that she enjoyed going to agility with her agility friend, Mr. Pelton (and that Arby did well there); and that the HCCS pasta festival and talent show was fun.

Frank reports that he and dad had fun practicing lacrosse, that several friends watched his Yankees do well in winning a little tougher baseball game (the coach sent Frank in as relief pitcher with the innings loaded; Mr. Icewater-in-his-veins closed out the inning with only one run getting in, went three-up and three-down in the next inning, and got the save), and that the pasta festival talent show had far too many little girls turning cartwheels for his taste.

A special thank-you to Mr. Pelton for sharing part of our family's weekend. Wade has always encouraged Abby in her dog obedience and agility ever since she began working with Amigo about four years ago, and he was another of those faithful who stood near us during Abby's recovery. (Here is a picture of him bringing Shadow, his bearded collie, to visit Abby at Warm Springs--as you can see, Shadow really made Abby smile--she has that effect on people!). This weekend he not only took Abby and Arby to their agility lesson, but he also attended Frank's baseball game and shared some very special gifts with him, including a baseball signed by Bob Cerv, an outfielder for the Yankees and the A's, who also happens to be Wade's brother-in-law. So many people have cared for our whole family in so many ways...it's nice to know that, if I have to be away, friends like him and others are nearby. Thanks, Wade...

Finally, I just wanted to share some "make-up" Easter pictures with you. The weather was finally warm enough for Abby to wear the pretty dress her grandma sent, so we took some pictures with our own wildflowers (and dogs, of course!).

Hope you had a beautiful weekend too!
-a very grateful Mom of Abby and Frank and wife of Gordon

Abby update - April 26

2007-04-26T22:52:00.000-05:00

Well, I can't tell you how Abby is doing tonight, 'cause she's not here! She's having a sleepover at her friend Taylor's house. I'm sure there's lots of giggling, snacking, and practical jokes going on about now...

I have to take a moment to tell you about Taylor. She has been such a good friend to Abby (since they were 3 years old!), and, along with some other good friends, has been at Abby's side since the accident happened. I've truly marveled at how these young women (and a couple of young men) were brave enough to face the very frightening images in ICU, compassionate enough to stand by Abby's side and talk to her even when she couldn't talk back (and later, when what she said didn't always make sense!), devoted enough to stick with her through the very long rehab process even when their own lives were going on, and encouraging enough to make Abby feel so welcome back at school, at home, and at sports. Most of all, though, I have to tell you how their faith has inspired me. From early on Taylor told her mother that "Abby is going to be the same, God is going to make her completely well," and she's always acted like that. Wow--what a testimony of faith to all of us. Thanks girls--from Abby and her whole family.

How's this for a wonderful story of friendship and healing? (photo from Abby's 13th birthday party)

Now, I have to ask for your prayers for Gordon. No, no--he's doing fine, but tomorrow morning I have to head to Wichita Falls to teach another couple of workshops, and I'm leaving him with an itinerary that would make even Stephen Covey want to pull his hair out. Before I return on Sunday morning, he and the kids will have to make it to a physical therapy appointment in Austin, a riding therapy appointment in San Marcos, agility practice in Austin, team photos and a baseball game in Wimberley, a school fund-raiser in San Marcos, and church and a pot-luck in New Braunfels. Stay out of the way of that 2001 CR-V! Needless to say, we'll ask for your patience, as it will probably be Sunday before we update the blog.

So--we hope you have a fulfilling weekend too!
Love,
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby, and Frank

Abby update - April 24/25

2007-04-25T22:33:00.000-05:00

Did you miss us yesterday? Sorry about that. April is my busiest month, and I was in Houston dodging thunderstorms and teaching a frog workshop last night. Gordon did a great job stepping in to handle all the commuting, home-schooling, sports, work-outs, etc., but I didn't make him do blog duty too...

It was great to get home to my family, clear skies, and a beautiful evening tonight. We all took a walk after dinner. The kids spotted birds, identified frog calls, showed Gordon all the milkweeds with Monarch larvae, found Venus in the western sky--they're pretty good young naturalists. And then Frank identified his favorite outdoor sound--the thump, thump, thump of a basketball at the Taylors' house--so we enjoyed a visit there while he shot baskets with their son.

Life is such a blessing, isn't it?
Love,
-the Linams

Abby update - April 23

2007-04-23T22:39:00.000-05:00

Seems like we're always singing "Take me out to the ball game..." around here...Abby worked hard to get her homeschool work, Hill Country School work, and music practice done early, so we could head to the ball fields once again this evening.

And it was another four innings--another Yankees win (I can't believe we Linams, with our Texas and Mississippi blood, are cheering for Yankees, but these boys are fun to root for!). Abby and I also got the chance to throw the softball around some. With her arm, I think the girl could still throw out a runner trying to steal 2nd--now we've just got to get those leg joints to cooperate in getting down into a catcher's squat.

It is still those small things that keep us working with and praying for Abby. She can run and throw, but her flexibility and agility aren't completely there yet. She can do math and English and science, but her memory and speed of processing just aren't recovered yet. She can play violin and piano, but her tremors and fine motor control still give her some trouble. She has come so far, but I know she'd like to be back completely...

And, so, as we give thanks along the way, please know that we still need you and your prayers...
Thanks...
-the Linams

Abby update - April 22

2007-04-22T21:13:00.000-05:00

Happy Earth Day! The cloudy, cool, drizzly weather in Central Texas probably made the earth happy, but we humans had to find other reasons to celebrate. After a wonderful church service, Gordon, Abby, and I headed to San Marcos for Gordon to work at the Earth Day event at Aquarena Springs. The exhibits were nice (although I think my kids are pretty saturated [no pun intended] on Central Texas springs, aquifers, etc.), but the real joy for me was getting hugs from some friends we hadn't seen in awhile, all of whom were so very glad to see Abby there. The network of love and prayer that has supported us and Abby has been so deep and broad--it's touching to me every time I run into a friend, colleague, acquaintance, friend-of-a-friend... who tells me they've been thinking of and praying for Abby. She's a very special girl who has touched a lot of hearts--something that keeps giving me hope for the future God has planned for her.

Thank you for being a part of that web of life and caring for Abby...
-those "greenie" Linams

Abby update by Abby - April 21

2007-04-21T21:26:00.000-05:00

I've been having a pretty cool weekend. Yesterday we went to the Bonsai Garden. It was pretty cool. Today we got to go to Frank's Baseball game. Grandma and Grandpa came to visit. We also went to the Butterfly Festival. In my spare time I've been having fun taking care of our friends' cats.

Now I'm going to bed, good night,

Love,
Abby

P.S. Frank's game stats [by Mom, not sister]: IP-4; SO-5; W-3; BA-.500; OBA-0.667; RBI-2; HR-1

Abby update - April 20

2007-04-20T23:11:00.000-05:00

Well, we enjoyed our Friday, much as we anticipated. We did some chores, but also enjoyed our morning walk. We did some homework, but also were able to visit the local bonsai garden. Abby had a violin lesson, then was able to ride at the therapy arena. Frank did some pitching and lacrosse practice, but enjoyed pet sitting with me and Abby. I made everybody clean the kitchen this evening, but then we all got to watch Second Chances (well, I made them fold clothes while they watched the movie...). I guess the guy at the bonsai garden would say we had our Ying and Yang balanced today.

(Abby with worried look on her face, wondering whether her brother would stick up "bunny ears" behind her head...)

But, as I close tonight, I'm simply thankful for rich days and second chances...
Love,
Lee Ann & the rest of the Linams

Abby update - April 19

2007-04-19T21:39:00.000-05:00

You all know that Abby loves Hill Country Christian School, but you may not know all the reasons why. There's no school there on Friday, so Abby and Frank are saying TGITh tonight! In fact, you can see that Frank and Arby are planning to sleep in...

Actually, we all love the concept--the idea that busy schedules keep families apart too much and that time with parents is valuable to a child's education, too. Friday, with its leisurely breakfasts, hikes around Wimberley, trips to the library, work on special projects, etc., is probably the kids' and my favorite day of the week. (And I usually get away with even adding in a few chores!).

Fridays off also mean that we can really enjoy Thursday evening activities, like tonight when we attended a farewell party on the San Marcos River for one of Gordon's co-workers, Tim. Tim and his wife Robin were among the first ones to join us in the emergency room at Brackenridge after Abby's accident--a source of quiet support that meant so much. At the party Robin and several others had their first chance to see Abby since her days in ICU. What a contrast! From ventilators, cranial monitors, and IVs to paddling canoes, throwing cast nets, and eating homemade ice cream! We've come so far...

Thanks to all of you who have been at our side at some point along the way.
Abby's family

Abby update - April 18

2007-04-18T22:27:00.000-05:00

Wait, wait, wait!!!! You're at the right place!

Just wanted to catch you in case the new look threw you off. Today was a slow news day, so I decided to spend some time doing some blog maintenance. Many of you know that Abby loves the color green (most specifically, lime green!), and, frankly, that original template that our dear friend Harold set up for us was just a little too close to being burnt orange (apologies to our good UT friends), so...welcome to the new look for the Abby Linam blogsite! (I've also set up some of my older posts in archives, so hopefully that will make the page load more quickly.)

Today was a good day. Abby had a great day at Hill Country, where she was able to get a lot more work done than usual and take her first test since returning to school there. When she left this morning she and I felt pretty good about her readiness (it was in Life Science, so that helped), so we'll hope the score turns out well too.

And, after tonight's game, the Yankees remain undefeated!

Keep on prayin'...
-the Linams

Abby update - April 17

2007-04-17T21:40:00.000-05:00

Not too much to report from today...Besides school the kids and I squeezed in a swim at the San Marcos Activity Center. Then Frank accompanied me to Austin for some work, but his primary motivation was to obtain some lacrosse equipment. For some reason the kid's developed this fascination with lacrosse (maybe because it involves a ball...), so we offered that he could get lacrosse equipment for his birthday in order to try out a camp in Austin this summer. I don't know much about it, but, based on the equipment required (a helmet and lots of pads), it must be a lot like hockey without the ice. That might make me worry, but my co-worker, Marsha, who loaned Frank some of her son's equipment, said it's not too hard on moms to watch. Anyway, when Frank got home he had Abby throwing a lacrosse ball to his new "stick." Just what we need--another hobby!

And now everyone's in bed, so I think I'll head there too (after I put a load of laundry on, get some bread started for in the morning, pay a couple of bills, and take a look at Abby's math lesson--but you've probably heard that joke...)

Good night!
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby & Frank

Abby update - April 16

2007-04-16T21:06:00.000-05:00

Things are feeling all too normal around here right now. Frank is giving Abby a hard time about spending too long in the bathroom, Abby is glaring at her brother because his latest pesky activity was squirting her with a watergun, the discussion about who should get the watergun out of the trashcan has led to some pinching and yelling--yep, we're a typical family with a 10 (nearly 11)-year-old and a 13-year-old....

But our day started out peaceably. Abby enjoyed a morning walk with me, the dogs, and Frank before doing a little homeschool work. She joined classes at Hill Country Christian School at 11 a.m., and I found a chance to speak with her teacher, Mrs. Doncov. I'm very encouraged about her sensitivity and optimism for Abby. Ever since Abby was in kindergarten I've felt like Hill Country was a safe, encouraging and nurturing environment, and I'm so thankful that the school is there for Abby now.

This evening was special as well. Frank had baseball practice, and Abby joined us there after school. We threw the softball around some, but she also tried out her bat for the first time since the accident. She was doing great hitting some soft tosses! Her form is still there (thanks Coach Amy!), so we've just got to work on the speed and strength. In fact, we thought she was going to have to step in and join her old team for their game this evening, but their missing players showed up just in time...I think she was ready in spirit...

Things have settled down now around the bathroom, and Hank the Cowdog is waiting for me and Frank, so I think I'll sign off...

In His love,
-the Linams

Abby update - April 14/15

2007-04-15T22:21:00.000-05:00

We had a relaxing weekend, so relaxing, in fact, that I took last night off blog-duty. Actually, I think you'll excuse me--it was Gordon's and my anniversary, and we decided that the computer was not the place to celebrate it!

We had decided that Abby needed some rest this weekend, so, other than a group violin lesson on Saturday (she played for two hours!), a movie with her dear friend Amber, church this morning, and a book report this afternoon (she did a great job on that!), she took it easy. Okay, maybe that doesn't sound too easy, but she did get some MASH-time (she loves that show!) and some down time with her dogs, which made them all happy, so I think she'd say it was a good weekend.

Frank had a good weekend, too, as the Yankees stayed undefeated. He pitched the entire game, and, though the Reds were doing some good hitting, the Yankees defense backed him up for another win. He also got a couple of hits and several RBIs.

Tomorrow we start our new school plan. I'm looking forward to it. We'll start out at home, where I'll help Abby with her math and English while Frank's also doing his schoolwork. Then Abby will get to finish her day at Hill Country Christian School, joining her classmates for science, social studies, and volleyball. She's very excited about this arrangement, and I'm so glad to see her stress level down. I'm also hopeful, that, if we can keep things simpler, perhaps I can find time to get Abby to write a few more blog posts for us--that should keep our readers happy!

Stay tuned!
Abby's gang

Abby update - April 13

2007-04-13T21:54:00.000-05:00

Well, I promised some photos from that special trip to the zoo, so here they are:

Today we dropped by Wimberley Junior High to "un-enroll" and to say thank you to the teachers and counselors who were so compassionate to Abby there. We were very impressed by the character and concern of the Danforth staff and will miss them all, especially Mrs. Ruiz, who did such a good job of guiding Abby back into her schoolwork, but, as for Abby, she is still celebrating the idea that her life will not include the complexities of the unfamiliar school on a daily basis. We are still hoping to work out a way to use the public school speech therapy services, so perhaps we'll get to see our friends there from time to time.

I tucked a work trip to Austin into this afternoon's schedule before taking Abby to riding therapy. She was riding Merlin around the barrels and the poles at a trot--they're looking really great together! But we're all looking forward to trying to keep the schedule simple this weekend.

Have a good weekend yourself!

Love,
-the Linams

Abby update - April 12

2007-04-12T22:12:00.000-05:00

Today was a day of respite and renewal. Abby had appointments with her rehab doctor and neuropsychologist at Warm Springs this afternoon, so we just decided to take the morning off from work and school as well and enjoy the day together.

Abby, Frank and I headed down to Brackenridge Park and the San Antonio Zoo together for the first time in a long time. When they were youngsters we always enjoyed picnicking there along the river and a walk through the zoo, but the last time we were there it was just me and Frank trying to enjoy a picnic together while Abby was in Warm Springs, still unable to respond. The weather that day was so cold and dreary and so was my spirit.

Today there was warmth and sun again. Abby packed a picnic lunch for all of us, and, after enjoying it, we headed to the zoo. It was the treasure I had hoped. There was a lot of construction going on at the zoo, but Abby kept us enthused with her appreciation for everything. I think our favorite part was an aviary where you could feed nectar to lorikeets. Seeing all the bright little lories all around brought back great memories of our trip to Australia. (So did the lazy 'roos in the paddock next to it...)

Our appointments with the doctors went well too. I went in with lots and lots of notes, hoping that they would help us sort through these school decisions, and came out with a real sense of peace. Both doctors independently said that they thought two different school settings and regimes were too much to place on Abby right now. They both suggested that we enroll her at Hill Country (her original school) as her primary school and that I work with her for a few hours at home each day on subjects where she needs more guidance (they had great faith in me--perhaps more than I did...). Interestingly, this option was also Abby's first choice. I think I've been trying too hard to accept everyone's offer of help, to utilize the best of everything available to us, but now I can see that perhaps that wasn't the best approach for Abby. What she needs most is a familiar and comfortable routine, surrounded by friends, with a devoted family ready to help her through the hard parts. Did I hear anyone say, "Duh?"

And, once again, Dr. Leonard left us with inspiration during her fast-paced visit (remember the day she shot over her shoulder "She's in there, I know it..."?). Today she was telling us about her most recent visit with Priscilla in El Paso. Priscilla is now able to stand and walk a few steps! (Rosa has had to have an even greater measure of patience than was granted to us). Anyway, Dr. Leonard said that Abby and Priscilla were her two milagras, her two miracles.

A miraculous gift from God to praying doctors, families, and friends...
Abby

P.S. I'll post some pictures of today's outing on tomorrow's blog. Right now my camera is with Gordon, Frank and Frank's friend at the Newsboys concert in San Antonio, and I'm not waiting for them to get home...!

Abby update - April 11

2007-04-11T21:22:00.000-05:00

Things went well for the Linams today. Schoolwork takes Abby a little longer these days, but today she seemed to have gotten quite a lot of work done and then enjoyed volleyball practice and a walk with Arby after school.

This evening Frank had a baseball game, and, though Abby and I had planned to leave a little early to go to a 4-H meeting, at the end of three innings it was tied 7-7, and Frank was pitching. During the top of the fourth Frank struck out two and threw home to get another base-runner out, but one runner managed to score, so the Yankees had to score during their last at bat. They managed to get three runners on base and then Frank hit a hard single up the middle to score two and help the Yankees remain undefeated. So what if we were 20 minutes late to the 4-H meeting?--We couldn't miss that exciting finish!

Plus, it was just wonderful to be outdoors this evening--maybe all that cold, wet weather last week was sent our way to help us appreciate days like this...

May you have a good one tomorrow...
-the Linams

Abby update - April 10

2007-04-10T21:16:00.000-05:00

I had conversations with more people with big hearts today. I had the chance to visit with some of the teachers, therapists, and special education staff at Danforth this morning. Abby took the morning off from classes, but I dropped by to check in with the staff there. We had a good heart-to-heart talk, and I came away realizing how much they care for Abby and how dedicated they are to finding the right approach for her. We talked over some options that we can explore with Abby and her neuropsychologist, and I left feeling very comforted that we will be able to again find the right balance for her schooling. Thanks for wrapping us in prayer.

The rest of Abby's day went well. She and her dad did some weight-training after school, and this evening the whole family enjoyed finishing up some of Grandma Linam's desserts and playing Cranium (I tried to burn calories pantomiming at least!!).

Here's believing that the sun will come out tomorrow (it better--it owes us a few more hours!!)...
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby & Frank

Abby update - April 9

2007-04-09T23:15:00.000-05:00

Well, I've done it again--let another late night slip up on me. It's easy to do when when we start the day with homeschool, Wimberley school, and San Marcos school, and then tack on some speech therapy, basketball and volleyball practice, music practice, a baseball game, and concession stand duty. Now, I'll admit that schedule includes activities for two kids, but, still, there's only one of me!! (And my sidekick, Gordon).

Actually, I decided to see a little more of what Abby's schedule feels like today. She was just really reluctant about heading to Wimberley Junior High this morning, so I asked if she'd like for me to accompany her to her classes. That seemed to make her feel better, so I tagged along, welcoming the opportunity to get a feel for what that setting is like for her.

I think I have a better empathy for her anxieties now. While Taylor Schaede has been so wonderful in helping her get started each day, the friends that she occasionally encounters there are glad to see her, and many of the staff there are very sensitive to her needs, I think she still feels like she is in a unfamiliar setting, surrounded mainly by strangers, trying to keep up with a unfamiliar schedule. That may be true for any kid in a new school, but for Abby right now learning new patterns and schedules is difficult, schoolwork is more stressful, and forming new friendships is more awkward.

The situation is just the opposite back at Hill Country Christian School. Abby is so happy to arrive there every day, she speaks to everyone, knows her way around, participates in everything, and every student, from little 2nd graders to big seniors, seem to find ways to encourage her. At Wimberley Junior High she feels all alone, while at HCCS she feels surrounded by love.

I think we'll be reassessing these school decisions this week and trying to find a different approach that fits Abby's educational needs, but also fits her emotional needs. I think we may need to challenge institutions to get creative, but that's their job--to educate individuals in the best way possible. We also have appointments with Abby's rehab doctor and neuropsychologist this week, so perhaps we can tap their insight as well. I sometimes feel selfish continuing to ask for your prayers for so many little things along the way, but, still...please pray for us and for Abby in these decisions.

And we, in turn, are praying for you...
Love,
-the Linams

Abby update - April 8

2007-04-08T22:44:00.000-05:00

I just thought I’d let a few photos fill in Abby’s news from yesterday.

I really love these photos of Abby and Cheyenne. Abby was so happy to see her, and it really shows in the photos and in the way Abby handled her. Cheyenne has enjoyed her “vacation” with the other horses, however, and I’m not at all sure she’s ready and willing to be “mastered” by a young rider again (she never has been very “willing” or completely trustworthy in that regard). Please pray for us as we need to make wise decisions about Cheyenne that keep both Abby’s safety and emotions in mind. For the moment, we very much appreciate Greg and Linda (and little Kayla) who have been providing Cheyenne with a good home.

All in all, it was a good weekend. It was our first trip “home” since Abby’s accident, and, at each stop along the way, I found myself giving thanks for family and for the blessings of our lives. It was so good to be with grandparents, aunts and uncles, and cousins (of our kids), along with old friends who have been faithful prayer warriors, and, despite winter’s last gasp, it was good to be overlooking the Austwell bay at sunrise this morning, giving thanks for life and Love.

With love,
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby and Frank

Abby update - April 6/7

2007-04-07T20:15:00.000-05:00

Hey Guys,

We've been on an Easter Trip. I got to see Cheyenne. She's still a wild-acting horse. Uncle Greg and Aunt Linda have been taking good care of her. She's living in a big pasture with Aunt Linda's horses. She really likes it!

The weather has been really horrible, so we've been inside eating and playing. When I was at my Grandma and Grandpa Linam's house my mom and I took a walk. In the morning I'm going to check my Easter basket and go to Easter sunrise service on the bay with Grandma Johnson.

Love ,
Abby

Abby update - April 5

2007-04-05T22:04:00.000-05:00

Today was just another "regularly-scheduled" day in our lives. Abby dutifully attended classes at Wimberley Junior High (despite her lack of enthusiasm, her teachers there are really watching out for her, especially Mrs. Ruiz, who is now her math teacher), then cheerfully attended classes at Hill Country. After school Abby and Gordon went by the San Marcos Activity Center to pump some iron (you should see her biceps!), and we all enjoyed some time outside with the dogs this evening.

We're looking forward to spending Easter weekend with our families. The idea of sacrifice and new life has extra meaning for us this Easter. To realize that God's plan was to see His child suffer and die for us is nearly incomprehensible love, but to know that the final gift was life that would not end is the greatest hope imaginable. May you have some time to reflect upon life and Hope this weekend...

Love,
-the Linams

Abby update - April 4

2007-04-04T21:15:00.000-05:00

No parties or celebrities today, so I just thought I'd share a picture of the kids with some of the bluebonnets at our house. Although cars aren't exactly pulling over to plop their kids out, it's our best crop ever!

I think today was a pretty good day for Abby. Her friends said she's getting better in volleyball all the time and even got some spikes over today! And, though Abby still didn't have much good to say about Wimberley Junior High, this evening she said that she would really miss art class there if she didn't get to attend it..."even if there are only boys in the class," she adds. (Her father is glad to hear her still speak of boys with such distaste...).

Frank, his friend Alex, and I finally got to take a walk again this morning as part of our homeschooling PE. We and the dogs really enjoyed the crisp air, though it put a damper on the boys' plan to swim in the pond this afternoon (that plan lasted exactly 8 seconds, I think). Frank's primary complaint about his school right now probably has to do with pronouns. (Can you name all six types???)

Now I think I'll take my husband's advice and get to bed a bit earlier...thanks for continuing to read and pray...we feel the strength it gives...

Love,
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby and Frank

Abby update - April 3

2007-04-03T23:24:00.000-05:00

As I mentioned yesterday, today is the six-month anniversary of Abby's accident. Like birthdays after you reach 40, when you're recovering from head injury you don't always look forward to these milestones--after all, the statistics tell you that recovery is greatest in the first six months, or at least in the first year, or maybe in the first two years...and, honestly, Abby still has some struggles physically and cognitively that I don't want to embrace in another six months.

And so--I made myself once again look back (by the way, I finally decided I needed to copy the blog to a back-up Word document--It's 152 pages long!!). And once again I gained courage. We have come so far when nothing was guaranteed. And so once again I plead with God for patience and grab hold of hope that Abby can still travel much farther. Here's the road we've traveled so far...may it give you hope too...

October 3 – Day of the accident. Abby was unconscious and intubated at the scene. Doctors in ICU at Children’s Hospital of Austin placed her in a drug-induced coma which was to last for 13 days, and our lives were changed.

Oct. 4-Nov. 3 – Abby awakened and was transferred to Warm Springs Rehabilitation Hospital in San Antonio where she started intensive daily therapy. Her swallowing reflexes were good and pureed foods were introduced. Though she was awake, we were frightened by her lack of responsiveness. It was not until November 2 that we perceived interaction with us. On that day she laughed!

Nov. 4-Dec. 3 – In this month Abby went from standing with much support to moving around the therapy gym with a walker. She learned to use her hands to grasp and throw things. She learned to speak again (though sometimes the right words were hard to find), to do math, to read, to write!

Dec. 4-Jan. 3 – What a lot can happen in a month! Abby began walking on her own, eating "real" food, and then got to come home from Warm Springs in time for Christmas! At home she was walking up the hills of Hoots Holler, playing her violin, typing on the computer, and training her dog. We celebrated a joyous Christmas!

Jan. 4-Feb. 3 – Abby rode a horse for the first time since the accident. She loves her riding therapy! We also started a therapy program at St. David’s Hospital in Austin. Quickly Abby learned to balance on one leg, to hop, and to swim. We also began school with a homebound teacher. Abby’s grammar skills remained good, while we began working on rebuilding some of her math skills.

Feb. 4-Mar. 3 – During this month Abby learned to skip and run. Her memory greatly improved, and she was better able to be responsible for her own daily routine. She began enjoying reading a book on her own, though certainly not as quickly as in the past.

Mar. 4-Apr. 3 – Abby is back in school and loving being with her friends at Hill Country Christian School. Additional classes in a new setting at Wimberley Junior High are a challenge, but Abby is hanging in there. One proud accomplishment: She ran Arby in a dog agility trial in March, something we had not dared hope for until perhaps this summer!

With hope,

Abby's family

Abby birthday update - April 2

2007-04-02T22:47:00.000-05:00

What a special day. I think I’ll let Abby’s birthday cake sum it up:

Today was a wonderful day--for what it was and what it represents. Abby had a fun birthday party at the San Marcos River, and friends of all ages stopped by to wish her well. We have been loved so well by so many people, and today was just another illustration, as Wimberley friends, Hill Country Christian School friends, and Texas Parks and Wildlife friends stopped by to share food, hugs and well-wishes. The "teens" (including their most recent addition) spent most of their time in the river (or contemplating getting in the river), but Gordon and I were encouraged by all our friends and colleagues who also shared our joy today. (And we couldn't have pulled it off without major assistance from some TPWD friends--thank you SO much!).

We are so thankful for our 13-year-old daughter--that she is here, that she was given to us and given back to us, and that she reminds us to be thankful for each day and for what it represents. Tomorrow will be six months since Abby's accident and maybe I'll spend some time looking back at what each month represents, but today Abby just helped me be thankful for this day. Even tonight, she was the one who made us all notice the beautiful full moon. That's the way Abby lives and thinks right now--her memory is improving, and sometimes we see glimpses of typical teenage distraction, but mostly she just notices life around her. Through her eyes I feel like we have been given a gift of new sight, and I hope that we will treasure that insight long after these days of recovery are behind us...

I know that many of you feel that you have learned and grown through Abby's experience. Perhaps that is the work that God needed to do through this ordeal. So, we say both "thank you" for being there, and "you're welcome" for allowing Abby to touch you...
With love,
-Abby's family

P.S. I also want to share some good news from Abby's very special and wonderful brother. After Abby's party we hurried back to Wimberley for Frank's baseball game. Frank was pitching tonight, and though he's always a little nervous when he pitches (he never shows it), he pitched a full game, allowing only one run and getting 10 strike-outs. It was a very special day for everyone...

Abby update - April 1

2007-04-01T21:02:00.000-05:00

Today was a fairly normal day for us (not too many April Fool's suprises--other than the blue milk this morning). We had a great church service, followed by a party for Abby's youth group. Since not much news happened, I thought I'd just use this opportunity to repeat the invitation to Abby's birthday party tomorrow. I've noticed that the template on the side is sometimes slow to load, so just in case you need the details again:

CELEBRATE!

What: Abby’s 13th Birthday

When: Monday, April 2, 4-6

Where: Old Fish Hatchery Building, San Marcos Plaza Park

Why: Because we can!

Please drop by for some hamburgers, music, and fun and games. The Old Hatchery Building sits on the banks of the San Marcos River at the intersection of Hutchison Street and C.M. Allen Parkway. You can park at the hatchery building or, if space is limited, at the Lion Club’s tube rental site and then walk across the river on the footbridge. Bring your swimsuit if you like.

No gifts for Abby please. We ask only for your presence, not presents. If you would like to bring something, then Abby has requested that guests bring toys for Austin Children’s Hospital (see list below March 29 entry) or dog food or supplies for the San Marcos Animal Shelter.

Call 512-847-9480 or 512-656-1222 for more info. Hope we can see you there!

Abby update - March 31

2007-03-31T22:48:00.000-05:00

It must be spring around here--lots of rain showers, frogs, bluebonnets, and BASEBALL!

Today was the opening day of Wimberley Little League, and both our kids were out on the fields. Frank's Yankees were looking like they might be the team to beat again this year, as they won their opener against the Cubs handily. Frank played first base and did well at the plate. In fact, he managed to turn a little dribbler up the middle in the 3rd inning into an overthrow-assisted home run! He was the last batter in the line-up, so the coaches told him to just keep running...

Abby was back in uniform too. Though not officially a part of of the Ultimate Force team this year, they had her wear her uniform and join them for opening ceremonies and for warm-up. She looked quite at home with her strong throws, and it was great to hear her chants coming from the dugout. As her mobility improves, I'm thinking she'll be itching to be back in the roster--we'll see...we've learned to believe that, with God and Abby's determination, all things are possible...

Indeed, it was just good to be back at the fields. Gordon and I always enjoy baseball and softball season--there's just a certain camaraderie in Wimberley, sitting along the baselines, eating hotdogs and peanuts, watching the sun go down, and cheering for every good play on either side. It was very good to be there as a family this year, and, though I thought the day might be bittersweet, Abby's good spirits and well wishes from lots of friends helped us to only see the joy in the day. There will be more seasons, and for that we are thankful.

So, play ball!
-the Linams

Abby update - March 30

2007-03-30T23:01:00.000-05:00

Boy, were we glad we have a dependable little fuel-efficient Honda today. Abby and Frank's activities kept us moving all day long. Here's the condensed version:

7:30 a.m. - Take Abby, Taylor and Frank to the doughnut shop so Gordon can meet Kenny to catch a ride to work (the GMC truck wasn't so dependable this week...) and so the rest of us can eat doughnuts!

8:00 a.m. - Drop off Abby and Taylor at Wimberley Junior High. Abby ran into a few more friends there today--each day seems a little better than the day before.

10:00 a.m. - Pick up Abby to take her to a PT appointment in Austin (we're still having a PT work on some of her neck flexibility, but it's better!).

12:00 p.m. - Drop by my office, by Subway for lunch (had to make up for those doughnuts for breakfast...), and by Academy to buy baseball pants for Frank and a couple of secret items for Abby.

1:30 p.m. - Drop off Frank for a birthday party sleepover in Austin.

2:30 p.m. - Violin lesson for Abby back in Wimberley--Though some residual tremors offer some real physical challenges for Abby's bow hand, she herself is improving each week!

4:00 p.m. - We're in San Marcos for riding therapy. Abby looks really good riding Merline in an English saddle today!

5:30 p.m. - Drop off Abby just outside San Marcos for a party for the girls in her class at HCCS--thanks to the brave moms (who don't even have junior high girls) for hosting it!

6:00 p.m. - I get to go out for my third meal of the day--no cooking all day and a date with my husband--whooo-hoooo!

9:00 p.m. - Pick up Abby and head home to Wimberley with a CR-V full of school books, work items, baseball gear, sleeping bags, riding boots, birthday party supplies, and some used dog beds that I found in someone's trash can on the side of the road--Honda really should hire us for a commercial, I think!!!

And there you have it--just another typical day for an American family of four!
Whew!
Abby's mom

Abby update - March 28/29

2007-03-29T20:42:00.000-05:00

Hi everyone,

Sorry about no post yesterday. When I couldn't log on at 11 p.m., I just took it as a sign that I was supposed to go to bed.

We all actually got to bed much too late yesterday. We just had to squeeze in one more Aggie softball game. Last night they were playing UT in Austin. Not only did we want to catch what we thought would be a good game (it wasn't), but we wanted to invite Abby's softball friend Grace and her mom to go with us. Grace is the selfless young lady who donated a softball signed by Cat Osterman and the UT softball team to Abby & Taylor's fundraiser, and her mom is the one who instigated things to get the TAMU softball team involved. We thought it would be an appropriate way to close out the story of everyone's generosity to have Abby and Grace be able to go to the game together. Grace was a good sport, and she and her mom sat with us in the maroon-shirt section, but in the end, she could smile, as the Longhorns played great (A&M did not) and took the game, no contest, from the #2-ranked Aggies. Grace really wanted to say "thank you" to Coach Evans of the A&M team for sending a replacement Cat-autographed ball to her, but we weren't sure if Coach Evans would be "in the mood" for conversing with fans after the way the Aggies played. We should have known better--Coach Evans is a classy lady. She shook Grace's hand and told her that "that was a wonderful thing you did" (donating her ball to the fund-raiser.) And, thus, the inspirational ending to the miracle softball story (at least until Grace and Abby face each other at Red McCombs Field as Longhorn pitcher and Aggie catcher, respectively...)

Okay, I guess there is also a little non-softball news from the last couple of days as well. Abby did start some classes at Wimberley Junior High (Danforth) on Wednesday. I think her report might read something like: Wednesday-I survived. Thursday-was okay. The size and confusion of the public school has been a little overwhelming I think, and, though Taylor Schaede has been by Abby's side to help her get to classes whenever she could, Abby doesn't know anyone who is in the classes she is taking. We really feel that Abby needs the instructional services that the public school can offer, but we want her to feel emotionally secure as well. As always, Abby is a trooper--doing what we ask her to do--but please pray that we, her teachers, and her counselors there will recognize the right thing for her spirit.

And, bummer, now that she's in public school, we have to get up and get ready on Fridays as well, so I guess I'd better start checking notebooks, school clothes, lunches, etc...

Love,
-the Linams

P.S. You might want to check out the post below if you'd like to know how you can help provide items to Children's Hospital of Austin.

Children's Hospital of Austin Wish List

2007-03-29T20:31:00.000-05:00

Hi everyone,

I just received a "Wish List" from the Austin Children's Hospital. Even if you can't make it to Abby's party, I thought I would pass along some notes about the high demand items that are on their list--perhaps you'd like to think of making a donation in someone else's honor sometime...

Infant & Toddler Items
Soothing bouncy seats and covers
Stacking rings and stacking cups
Pop-up toys, toy phones, See & Says
Underwear, socks

Pre-school & School Age
Underwear, socks & clothing

Adolescents
Art kits
Sports balls
Wallets, purses & backpacks
Clothes, pajamas, slippers & underwear

Games
Life
Cranium
Cards (UNO, Go Fish, etc.)
Chutes & Ladders
Millennium Ed. Monopoly

Electronics
Game Boy Advance & Games
Nintendo Games
X-Box 360 Games & Controllers
X-Box 360 Memory Cards
Personal CD Players and headphones
Popular CDs for all ages
Kodak Easy Sahre Digital Cameras
Kodak Printer dock & paper refills
Playstation I & II games

Arts & Crafts
Play-Doh & Play-Doh tools

Some special notes:
*CHOA can only accept new items due to infection control policies.
*Video games must be rated "E"; games for more than one player are preferred
*60% of the patients at CHOA are under the age of 3 years

To schedule a delivery contact the Child Life Office at 512-324-8235

Abby update - March 27

2007-03-27T22:30:00.000-05:00

Well, tomorrow is another big day. Abby starts some classes at Wimberley Junior High.

We met with her education team there today and were again pleased at their persistence in working out a plan that seems best for Abby that somehow still meets all the legal requirements that seem to bind public schools these days. During the mornings Abby will be taking a math, English, and art class at Danforth and will receive assistance from their speech therapist and occupational therapist, but she will travel to her San Marcos to join friends at her old school for science, history, spelling, PE, and, very importantly, lunch!

I must tell you that tonight she seems very uncomfortable with the idea. I think the public school just seems very unfamiliar and very large and crowded compared to her small private school. On the other hand, I know that there are dozens of kids at Danforth who are so excited about her recovery and about having Abby be a part of their school. I know that they and the kind teachers we have met so far will watch out for her very well. And we do feel that Abby needs the type of instruction and therapy that can be provided at the public school. Please do keep her in your prayers tomorrow, however.

Finally, I just wanted to let you know that I've posted information on Abby's birthday party in the margin. Anyone is welcome to drop in and join us--this birthday is much reason for celebration!

Love,
Abby's family

Abby update - March 26

2007-03-26T22:35:00.000-05:00

Well, we allowed our adrenaline to dip a little today and just tried to get a new work and school week started. One new thing Abby added to her schedule was a meeting with a new speech therapist. We liked Chelsa, who will be dropping by Hill Country Christian School a couple hours per week to do cognitive therapy with Abby, instantly and were so thankful that once again things are falling into place with her availability within Abby's very busy schedule!

Tomorrow we work out a few more details on that schedule as we meet with Abby's education team at Wimberley ISD. We've been very happy at the support they've offered us thus far and are trusting that tomorrow's meeting will weave everything together and just further strengthen the team of wonderful professionals who are helping Abby in her comeback.

Please keep Frank in your prayers as we attend all these meetings, do all this commuting, etc. He has been a great brother, a good sport, and a dedicated student during all these various perturbations of his life, but he's been feeling under the weather lately. We think it's just side effects of allergies, but he's not felt very well the last couple of evenings...

Thanks for caring and praying,
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby and Frank

Abby update - March 24/25

2007-03-25T21:50:00.000-05:00

Okay, pour yourself a cup of coffee (or OJ around our house) and put your feet up, 'cause we've got quite a story to tell from this weekend...Just when I thought I was running out of things to write!

You probably remember the heart-touching tale of how the Aggie softball coach got involved with Abby and her friend Grace, sending a signed Aggie practice shirt to Abby and a ball signed by Cat Osterman to Grace. Well, Coach Evans had also invited Abby to attend an Aggie softball game, so this weekend we headed to College Station to catch a game between A&M and Iowa State. We thought it would be a nice treat, with Abby's birthday coming up, but we had little idea how amazing it would be.

First, our kids were just excited about the chance to visit my good friend (and TAMU roommate) Ruth. They love Ruth and her dog Erin, and, to make things even "sweeter," this weekend Ruth's Kiwanis Club was hosting a pancake breakfast, and there's nothing that Frank loves better than a big stack of pancakes with syrup. So the first stop Saturday was pancakes for brunch. They were great!

Then we headed to the game with Ruth. The Aggie softball team is great this year! They're currently ranked number 3 in the country, and I think they're the greatest secret on campus. We had passes for three of us (thanks to Coach Evans), but the remaining tickets were a bargain. In return, everyone got great seats, a fun environment, and some very good fastpitch softball. Early on the Aggies were playing well, enroute to a comfortable win, when everyone in the stands started standing up and applauding...

Then President George H.W. Bush walked in (with his dog and some men in suits)! We learned that he's a huge Aggie softball fan, and, with the playing field next door to his Presidential library, he often drops in for a game or practice. Ruth spoke to him, and he said he'd be happy to talk to the kids between innings, so Abby and Frank got to shake President Bush's hand and get his autograph!

Afterwards we were hoping to say thank you in person to Coach Evans for all she's done for Abby, when we ran into a TPWD colleague of mine and his wife. Their daughter, Jami Lobpries, usually starts for the Aggie softball team, but has been sidelined for a few games with an injury. (In fact, Jami, who brings a lot of hitting power to the Aggies, is now an answer to an official Trivial Pursuit sports question. Last year she hit a grand-slam home run off Cat Osterman in a TAMU-UT game--the only grand slam that has been hit off the gold medal Olympic pitcher in her entire softball career!). I actually knew Jami as a little girl, when we'd play lots of silly games together, and she's still as spunky and outgoing now. She took Abby under wing and showed her the Aggie dugout and locker room and gave her lots of inspiration for years to come!

We also did manage to meet Coach Evans, and now we know the reason for the Aggies' success. She is a very neat lady, who obviously has a huge heart. She expressed such genuine joy at meeting Abby and told of a player of hers in the past who had also had to fight to recover from a brain injury. I can't tell you how much we were impressed with her caring attitude, and, when she and Jami told us we should come back for the game on Sunday, we agreed that we needed to!

In between, however, we got to spend time with some more people that have been caring for us and Abby. We enjoyed dinner on Saturday night with Ruth's parents, two very special friends, and on Sunday morning, we had a very special visit to Ruth's church. We again met former strangers who said they had been praying for Abby, had her picture in their home, felt like they knew her...and we heard a wonderful sermon about the audacity and trepidation it takes to ask God to answer prayer. We felt we had truly experienced the emotions and the grace that result from being so vulnerable and yet so bold...

And then back to the game. The Aggies stomped Iowa State again, and at the end of the game Jami had a very special gift for Abby. She gave her her batting helmet from last year signed by all the girls on the team. What a wonderfully inspiring day. Even if Abby never plays softball at a level approaching these girls, I intend to help her remember what it means to pour out your heart in compassion. We saw it in these girls and in their coach and in so many others that touched us this special weekend.

And, if that wasn't enough--on the trip there and home we were treated to a glorious display of spring wildflowers. And I was reminded of a note from a co-worker last fall who wrote Abby that, even while the soil was dark and cold, the wildflowers of spring were there, underground, waiting to emerge again...thank you Dana...

With so much thankfulness,
Abby's family

Abby update - more pix from Aggieland

2007-03-25T21:17:00.000-05:00

Abby and Frank with Jami Lobpries. Abby is letting Frank wear her signed helmet from Jami.

Abby in the Aggies Softball locker room.

Abby and Jami in the Aggies' dugout.

Abby and Frank on the field after Sunday's win.

Abby update - March 23

2007-03-24T00:11:00.000-05:00

Today was a wonderful day, full of special events and ordinary events that just make life special. I suppose I’ll just tell the story chronologically, because it’s too late to think of a more creative way to wind it together…

First, this morning Abby was able for the first time to attend a regular violin lesson. She had joined Paula’s students for some group practice, but this was her first time back in her old lesson slot. It was just such a good feeling to once again be sitting, listening, taking notes on things to practice…and Paula has such a good perception of Abby’s motor difficulties and how to let violin help therapy and therapy help violin…

After the lesson we followed an old tradition and had breakfast at the Wimberley doughnut shop before dropping by the village library. It was good again to be there and for Abby to see several of the staff with whom she worked last summer.

At home we did chores and baked cookies, but took time for a walk. Everywhere we looked it was spring—bluebonnets and verbenas blooming and monarchs and swallowtail butterflies flitting, but the best part was when Frank said, “Look at all those birds!” We looked up to see about 200 white pelicans swirling and soaring, trying to get up high and head north. And I was glad that I had the chance to share such magic with my two kids again…

But, the wonderful day wasn’t over. Several weeks ago we bought tickets to the Royal Lipizzan Stallion show for Abby as an early birthday present, so she and I picked up her friend Hannah and headed to downtown Austin. The horses were as amazing as I remembered when I was 12, and the girls really enjoyed themselves. (Abby has read and re-read Marguerite Henry’s book about the Lipizzans.)

Having realized that the show was just across the street from Children’s Hospital of Austin, we brought some of those cookies with us and called to see if we could slip in and see some of the night shift nurses. They were really happy to see Abby (and her cookies), and we were glad to be able to say thank you to some of the nurses (and one of the doctors, even) that saw us through some very long nights there.

Then, some ice cream at Marble Slab and home finally to blog, to bed, and to pack for an overnight trip to College Station tomorrow. We’ll take in an Aggie softball game (they are great this year!) and visit with my friend Ruth—we’ll post an update when we get home on Sunday night. Hopefully this long post will keep you satiated until then! :-)

Abby update - March 22

2007-03-22T20:53:00.000-05:00

I was glad I got back to school this week!The best part was seeing my friends.I've also enjoyed being back in science class. Volleyball is fun too! I am looking forward to a fun weekend.

Love,

Abby

Abby update - March 21

2007-03-21T22:37:00.000-05:00

Another day of school, music, animals, and sports--it's beginning to feel like "old times" around here. That's a praise!

Abby had another good day at school. We arrived early enough to join the Wednesday chapel service. It was a blessing for Abby to simply be back as a student, and, when she slipped into the pew a little late it was so touching to see her classmates shift around to make sure she had a place to sit next to them. Her schoolwork went well, and volleyball practice was better than before. We just have to keep hanging on to the promise that one of the nurses in ICU made, "I love this type of patient," (to which we, seeing Abby hooked up to tubes, IVs, respirators, etc., said "huh?")..."because every day they just keep getting better and better." Every day is better.

We got in some baseball and softball practice after school. Abby's throwing arm is great (I made her move farther away out of fear!). Then I was afraid again, as I caught for Frank to practice pitching (Abby's joints don't let her get down into a catcher's squat yet)--not because he is bad, but because he is throwing really hard this year. I think I'm going to have to buy some catcher's gear. It should be a good season for his Yankees again.

Well, I think that's all for today. It's actually good news when the news for the day is pretty mundane--good news that our family gets to just be a normal family again. Hope we don't bore you, but we'll keep on writing for now!!

Love,
-the Linams

Abby update - March 20

2007-03-20T21:34:00.000-05:00

Well, I don't know about the rest of us, but Abby seems to have settled into the school groove pretty well. She was up and ready before the rest of us again this morning.

She said her day went pretty well. In addition to her classes at Hill Country Christian, we also squeezed in piano practice, backyard agility practice, a swim, a work-out with weights, some computer cognitive therapy, and some math and grammar time with her Wimberley ISD teacher (and still had time to watch a re-run of The Andy Griffith Show tonight!) She also helped me fix supper--that girl has amazing energy! I wish my list of accomplishments for today was so long...

We did just want to give a "heads-up" for your calendar. On April 2 we will be celebrating a very special birthday. Abby turns 13, and we want to invite everyone to join us for a celebration. We're leaning toward a picnic in San Marcos at one of the local parks, probably from about 4-6 p.m. or so. More details later, but we thought that you'd like to know that very special date is coming up.

Until then, we'll just keep celebrating each day...
Lee Ann, Gordon, Abby & Frank